Sorry if it sounds a bit ridiculous but at this point i have to ask. Is their clues, ways to tell for sure that you are a lesbian ? Keep in mind that i've never been with anyone so i know a kiss (for instance) would tell me that but i'm so far from having the opportunity to do that. Anyways, thanks for reading.
I havn't done anything else than kissing, either. But when I imagine having sex, I like the thought of having sex with a woman. I don't like penises at all and the thought of being penetrated grosses me out. I guess that's the whole secret.