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Caught!! Please help!

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Kevin k, Mar 14, 2019.

  1. Kevin k

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    I just got off work, picked up my boyfriend, and went home. I didn't know my grandpa was visiting. I foolishly didn't shut the door all the way when I started to change out of my work clothes. My boyfriend was in the room with me, and he got up off the bed and kissed me. This is when my grandpa just walked in! The door was cracked open, so I guess he thought it was ok. He just looked at us, gasped, and closes the door and walked away. It would've been one thing if he walked in on me changing and my boyfriend happened to be in there, but a completely different situation when I'm wearing nothing but boxer shorts, my boyfriend's hands are on my hips, and I was kissing him on the lips. I can't just explain my way out of that. I'm so afraid to leave my room, he's probably telling my mom right now! I can hear them talking, and I feel like the emotional storm I've been on the edge on all week is finally going to hit! Chip, please, help...
     
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    Try to stay calm. Hopefully they'll be understanding of it and realize there's nothing wrong with it, or will give you a chance to explain what happened and you can tell them it wasn't what it looked like.

    Also, @Chip will tag him and help him see this faster.
     
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    But it was what it looked like, and she knows it. I talked to her. There was a very big arguement and alot of yelling. She told me she doesn't want me around tomorrow. She said not to be at the house the whole weekend. I think I just got kicked out. This is bad...
     
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    I addressed this in the other thread.
     
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