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Came flying out of the closet!!

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by jae, May 3, 2014.

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  1. jae

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    So this month has been insane, im in the middle of a divorce that just became very complicated. Up until 2weeks ago only a select few knew that I was gay, well out of fear of retribution from my former spouses significant other I came out to everyone I know.... I said, fuck this shit im not hidding anything any more this will be on my fucking terms not someone else. So there you have it, the world knows and ya know what? I dont give a shit !!! I am relieved I no longer have this hanging over my head I feel empowered!!!! Im to damn old to care what others think of me. Oh and on a side note, my partner proposed to me!!!!!

    All is good in the world today!!!

    Jae:icon_bigg
     
    #1 jae, May 3, 2014
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    The world is on your side and hold your head up high every day and all the well that ends well :slight_smile:
     
    #2 Andrew99, May 3, 2014
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    *feels jealous*
     
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    Good on you for bursting out of that closet :grin:! And congrats on your engagement!
     
    #4 nyxe, May 3, 2014
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    It sounds like you're in a really great place now. Good for you!
     
    #5 Slothus, May 3, 2014
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    Congratulations! :eusa_clap
     
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    Congratulations on your engagement
     
    #7 Anonymous, May 3, 2014
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    Free at last! Free at last! Thank God Almighty, we are free at last!

    Not exactly what he probably had in mind, but these are the first that come to mine!

    Congrats, Jae. Start living!
     
    #8 PeteandTom, May 3, 2014
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    Congrats! :grin:
     
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    If only the same can be said for some people... :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Awesome
     
    #11 Richie., May 4, 2014
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    Wow, jae, congratulations on taking charge of your life, big time! Sounds like many positive changes are happening for you. Glad to hear it!
     
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    Thank you all for your support and encouragement!!
     
    #13 jae, May 4, 2014
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    that's awesome! congratulations
     
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    Must feel great to hit a home run and win the game. Congrats
     
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    congrats on both scores
     
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    Congrats!!
     
    #17 JStevens96, May 8, 2014
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    congrats on coming out and your engagement
     
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    Wow that sounds awesome! congratulations on your recent freedom and engagement! :slight_smile:
     
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    Thanks again everyone, I do feel free!:slight_smile:
     
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