My boyfriend wants to try an open relationship, as in the past weve had different sex drives. He's interested when I'm not, and vice versa. Recently hes told me he may be poly, and may want to try other people. I was okat at first, and after trying some dating apps and hopelessly flirting with people. I decided that I am a monogomist. I can't do it, I am simply uninterested in everyone but my boyfriend. But he's resisting that, more than I thought he would. He's pushing that eventhough I don't want to open the relationship, be may not be able to control the urges. He said he wouldn't cheat on me, but he may not be happy. I don't know what to do. I want to keep us together, but I cant do an open relationship. Is this the same as a gay man staying with his wife simply out of love? Should we stay together? It's been a year and a half that we've been together.