I've been with this guy for about 8 months now and we have been sexually active for several months now. The first time he tried to give anal sex to me he couldn't stay erect so I just shrugged it off. I've expressed that I want to try it (he's the only person I've had sex with), but it just doesn't happen. I talked to him about it and he says he thinks he might be addicted to porn. He's been trying his hardest not to watch porn and I think that has helped, but it still isn't enough. I told him he should go see a therapist or something that specializes in sexual matters but he is mortified of telling his parents about his problem and I don't blame him. It's already difficult enough to talk about it with me. His parents aren't too keen on his "gay lifestyle". I just don't know what I can do to help out? I don't want to break up over something like this. I think he believes that if he doesn't fix the problem I will break up with him, but I told him I wouldn't. I just don't know what I am supposed to do! Anyone else experience this? What did you do the remedy the situation?