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Boy advice...

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by malachite, Aug 22, 2017.

  1. malachite

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    So, I just need some advice on a situation.

    So, a few years ago this guy and I were dating, he decided he just wanted to be friends, which sucked but I liked spending time with him so I went with it.

    Fast forward, we became roommates and really good friends. We did everything together.

    Now, he gets a boy friends and I realize I still have feelings for him. Seeing them together is really cutting me up inside.

    So, I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to come between him and his boy friend. Should I move out? I really don't know what to do.

    Any advice would be appreciated
     
  2. lovewine

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    You can either give a "valid" fake excuse for moving out or date around and keep yourself busy :slight_smile: Do you want to stay as roommates? You can still be friends with him even without being his roommate if it's painful for you to see them..
     
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  3. YeahpIdk

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    Moving in with someone you had romantic feelings for is never a good idea because this happens.

    I vote yes for moving out.
    If it's too hard to right now, keep searching for a way to leave and keep yourself busy until it happens.
     
    #3 YeahpIdk, Aug 22, 2017
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