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Blowjobs: Giving or Receiving

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Jared, Jul 29, 2013.

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Would you rather give or receive a blowjob?

  1. Give

    54 vote(s)
    32.5%

  2. Receive

    24 vote(s)
    14.5%

  3. Both are wonderful

    82 vote(s)
    49.4%

  4. I don't blowjobs, period

    6 vote(s)
    3.6%
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  1. Stridenttube

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    I don't have any experience at all with this. But I'd like to think that I'd like to be the one giving the pleasure.
     
    #21 Stridenttube, Jul 30, 2013
  2. Pat

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    Receiving.. but lately, I haven't cared for either. I have to really like the guy, that's what makes sexual acts worth it to me.
     
    #22 Pat, Jul 30, 2013
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    Both for sure.
     
    #25 BlueLines, Jul 30, 2013
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    Giving only is what I am used to. I don't care for anyone to touch that part of my body may have something to do with it. I love to give my partner pleasure and he asks quite often for it as he has a extremely supercharged sex drive. June
     
    #26 June Cleaver, Jul 30, 2013
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    Definitely both!

    Though I tend to give them to my mate, more often, as it's hard for me to resist.
     
    #27 HuskyPup, Jul 30, 2013
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    Whenever I play fictional boyfriend, I find that giving and receiving are equally pleasurable.
     
    #29 BornInTexas, Jul 30, 2013
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    I prefer receiving. MY jaw always starts to hurt when I give, and that's no fun. Plus, who doesn't like to just sit back and "relax" sometimes?
     
    #30 KrisBrooks, Jul 31, 2013
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    It depends on the guy in question for me and indeed my mood, both can be pleasurable with the right guy at the right time although all in all probably giving would be what I prefer?
     
    #31 Vashta Nerada, Jul 31, 2013
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    Giving, definitely. I would feel weird the other way around.
     
    #32 Jimi, Jul 31, 2013
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    When it comes to sexual orifices, I am either indifferent or more towards disgusted.[/COLOR] With mouths, I am more indifferent so I wouldn't really have an issue giving oral sex was something that they were into, but personally I find giving much more enjoyable than receiving.
     
    #33 Gen, Jul 31, 2013
  14. Lovethemdudes

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    I have not done either before, but would probably try both. I would probably prefer receiving based off of my fantasies though.
     
    #34 Lovethemdudes, Jul 31, 2013
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    Never been in a relationship let alone got a blowjob lol. I think i'd prefer to be a "giver" when it comes to sex though.
     
    #35 That1Guy, Jul 31, 2013
  16. Starry Eyes

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    I've received a blowjob but never given one. But in my mind I feel like I would rather give them. Just something about it turns me on.
     
    #36 Starry Eyes, Jul 31, 2013
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    I think I would be like 80% giver and 20% receiver lol, I like to give people pleasure more.
     
    #37 robotman, Aug 1, 2013
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    same here!
     
    #38 lukeluvznicki13, Aug 1, 2013
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    it really depends on the situation. If there is a strong connection with the other person, for me it is better to give since giving the other person is much more meaningful. In other cases (like casual sex) self-gratification is the most prominent desire, I find receiving better.
     
    #39 Jakey945, Aug 1, 2013
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    Giving more but receiving would be great too.
     
    #40 nemocplus, Aug 1, 2013
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