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Bi attractions

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Biguy45, Apr 16, 2018.

  1. Biguy45

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    just curious. As bisexual people, what are you attracted to in men and women? Is it the same for both? In some cases, mine is but not totally. It can be a body part or a way they carry themselves. Whatever you look for in certain people
     
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    With me it is the way they carry themselves.
     
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    I'm not bisexual anymore, but I did still have attractions to both before.

    Girls - mainly physical features like their breasts and legs, and also being outgoing. It sounds really shallow when I say it like that, but yea I didn't see a whole lot of difference between girls. If they had nice breasts and weren't annoying to be around I was attracted to them.

    Boys - completely different from girls. The first thing I notice is always their face, lips, emotions and expression. I'm kind of drawn to the more shy guys instead of the outgoing ones too. The attractions vary a lot more than with girls also, I'm drawn to both tall and masculine 'protector' types and also smaller more thin and gentle guys. Their chest is a big turn-on like with girls though, when they have that look of athletic and strong but not totally ripped it's perfect. A guy who has a strong but quiet level of confidence is attractive too, the type where you know they can handle anything thrown at them but don't feel the need to brag about it or show things off about themselves.
     
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    Personality-wise the same things. But not physically. I'm attracted to both feminine and masculine body parts/traits. I am not into very macho guys, because I feel like one (I am a girl down there) and the other macho guys are my rivals or coworkers, if that makes sense. I'm mostly into androgynous personality, into people who are strong and warm at the same time, but not overly about asserting power. Feminine people (including "campy" guys) attract me but I have a love-hate relationship with this type, because I get into taking care of them and becoming a foster parent remembering to nag them about studying, demanding a pay raise or good work conditions, remembering to organise the practical side of our plans, the only of us two to ever make effort to maintain the relationship... People who lack on the masculinity dimension tend to be annyoingly impractical. So it's more like a frustration stemming from experience than lack of attraction. Warm and artistic personalities are attractive for me, if we speak about attraction. Physically speaking... I'm not too picky, there are a lot of things that are attractive for me. I'm into both male and female features. Or body parts. And into good looking healthy people, simply.
     
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    I am basically attached to a manly gay as opposed to a feminine one. But just the opposite when it comes to a woman.
    I am not too worried about looks as I am having a good attitude.
     
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    I’m thec
    I’m the same. Masculine men and feminine women. Also, butts. Lots of butts
     
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    In my case the same for both. Androgyny, femininity, intelligence, humor. I don't like macho men.
     
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    In terms of physical appearance: this. Same.
     
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    LOL I agree.
     
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    Generally personality and looks.
     
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    I am very much into women as objects of desire - I notice slim or athletic girls with curves, long hair, sexy lips/teeth/eyes/smile...and gorgeous rear/long legs/pretty feet.

    It's different with men, I hardly look at them in everyday life, and mainly only for comparison purposes - a little bit of jealousy if they have insanely fit bodies.

    However, just as I notice what makes a female beautiful in my eyes, I recognise the features that would typically describe a guy as a "hunk". Slim muscular fit guys with nice hair, eyes, smile and jawline I find attractive...but just as with females, I'm attracted to smooth, shaved, clean and smart looking guys.

    Sexuality-wise, both sexes turnme on...much more situationally with women but ultimately, my fantasies and turn one revolve more around guys and the typical "gay porn" sexual activities that 2 sexy guys can have with each other...to that end, I rarely try to turn myself on with images of women.

    Socially, I'm comfortable with both sexes but try so much harder to flirt with girls, and when that happens the result is...high arousal.

    Other than that, after the initial physical attraction, the personality of the guy or girl becomes the main focus for me, and determines whether I will "fall" for them, and want to pursue sexual relations with them.

    Reading this back to myself, I sound very mixed up...but I do not feel confused at all, it works for me.
     
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    I’m much more physically attracted to women, and, if I’m being honest, enjoy sex with them more. That may be because I have much more experience with them than men. I just love the female form. With guys, I like rugged, manly types with rippled abs and tight butts. The typical male model I guess. As far as personality, I used to like hanging out with the guys, but I don’t know if I’d want to be around one all the time. I think I’m better suited for long term relationships with women See, I’m all mixed up too
     
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    Yeah, I'm super mixed up...I enjoy penetrating women but love being penetrated by men.
     
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    Yeah I have some very specific attractions and desires with both sexes as well. As I said, my experience with women is vastly larger with men. I enjoyed what experience I had with men but it wasn’t much
     
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    Yeah...my experience has been...significant with both sexes lol
     
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    The way guys carry themselves. I’m attracted to mostly smooth/metro guys. All though my scope is getting broader as time goes on.
     
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    What do you mean broader?
     
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    Like maybe men with some facial hair or masculine then in the beginning