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Best and Worst of the year

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by SomeNights, Dec 15, 2012.

  1. sunnii

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    omfg that is me too. the work night out was the highlight of having close friends (yes my social group is with the people i work with but its not like acquaintances i had at school and college)
     
  2. jaysuss

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    Best: Being loved for being gay and finding a man!

    Worst: I still have to hold evidence on that one person.
     
  3. redstormrising

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    I've had such an amazing year, I don't think I could pick a "best." Worst was Hurricane Sandy, and specifically the 12-hour block when no one could reach my sister.
     
  4. TheUndiscovered

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    Worst: Questioning my sexuality
    Anxiety
    Not sure what to label myself now and has put a major hold on eventually coming out (which I planned on doing before I started questioning)
    Feeling distant from friends and everyone else.

    Best: 2013 is here..Found tumblr..Not dead? It's been a shitty year. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  5. OutLoud

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    Best: Losing my virginity at 23 and having sexytimes with a few different people - all within the past like 2 months. Also having one of my best friends come out to me as bi and us fooling around a few times.

    Worst: I can't get myself to do my college papers.
    Also, my best friend says he just wants to be friends with benefits and doesn't want anyone else to know about it. Feels kind of depressing. If I was a girl, he would be an asshole if he wanted sex and yet tried to hide that fact from our friends because he was embarrassed to be seen with me. From what I see on here it's pretty common though. I'm not sure when I should start feeling like a chump.
     
  6. Niko

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    Worst: Having very high anxiety due to a huge fire during the summer. My grandparents almost lost their home cause of it (they were one of the few left on their block that was still standing) and we were on pre-evacuation for like a week.

    Best: Finally coming out of the closet to my parents. Though I swear it was all a dream, because they act like they know nothing about it at times.
     
  7. Best:
    • Joining EC!
    • Getting straight A's once again
    • Getting accepted to most of my top universities
    • Decreasing unnecessary stress with the help of my psychologist
    • Being more open and meeting new people at college

    Worst:
    • Finally admitting to my best friend that I am in love with him, even though we are still best friends
    • Knowing that he can never reciprocate the love
    • Knowing that my best friends and I will be split when we move to universities
    • Having to wait to be fully open about my sexuality
    • Being single!!!

    All in all, not too bad of a year. Very interesting I have to say. Here's to next year! Big changes!
     
  8. FunnyMonkey

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    Best

    Making one new friend (it's hard for me to make friends)
    Finally admitting to myself that I like guys
    getting accepted in to college.

    Worst.
    Buying my first car witch turn out to be a lemon that I that I owe the bank for.
    hearing my brother talk bad about lgbt people.
    had some of my baby stuff stolen from me =( still sad about that one)

    that just a few of the thing that I could think of.
     
  9. andersonh09

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    Best: Doing well at college and making new friends (a big thing for me):grin:
    Worst: started cutting
     
  10. Of Mice and Men

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    Best: Winning first place in a state-wide short story contest; coming out to all of my friends; making many new friends; starting a fun part-time job; my family trip to Hawaii

    Worst: Watching my crush and best friend start dating; fights with my family; anxiety attacks; being single; realizing how much harder my life is going to be than the average straight person's
     
  11. leer

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    Best
    being happy at work
    finding a boyfriend
    involvement in Manchester pride
    collage and new friends came out to some of them .
    Joshua. friends little boy am his god father


    worst
    negativity
    nearly loosing dad . he had a heart scare needed an operation .
    broke up with boyfriend after 6 months
    my stupid step sister
     
  12. worst;
    ex got back in contact after a year u__u
    being played around by a girl i liked

    best;
    seeing my friends back in london in summer :3
     
  13. Pain

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    Worst-- having to leave my David.

    Best-- Seeing him again and surviving the end of the world thus far!!!
     
  14. IanGallagher

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    Best - Met a guy and fell in love
    Came out to my parents
    Wrote the screenplay that's going to make my career

    Worst - Lost the guy I fell in love with because I wasn't ready to accept it
    And lost my dog who gave me the strength to live forever young
    Some stranger tried to ram me off the road, but near death experiences always makes you grateful and realize how much you love being alive through the good and the bad
     
  15. Hexagon

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    Best - I guess you could say I found myself, if that makes sense.
    Worst - dropped out of school twice, and I decided that my parents will eventually have to leave my life.
     
  16. GlindaRose

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    Best - Ging on holiday to Santa Monica, LA in the summer for 2 weeks.

    Worst - Nearly burning out completely towards the end of 1st semester of third year because of all the obligations I had to fulfil and all the limits I imposed upon myself. It was incredibly stressful.
     
  17. unsuspecting

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    Best:
    I found out who i TRULY am
    I'm mostly out ^.^
    Most are accepting of me being gay
    Found my better half <3

    Worst:
    School just seems to get harder and harder!
    I fail to reach many of my goals
     
  18. oblina

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    Best: meeting my amazing girlfriend who gave me the support to come out to my immediate family, who accepts me ~.~



    Worst:My two best friends asking me to stay with my beard & stay in the closet, backstabbing me and cutting me out.:grin: and going three months ( and counting) without my anxiety/depression Meds because of money.
     
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  19. justinf

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    Out to everyone
    This, except no Tumblr.

    I don't know if questioning actually is the best part, though, it depends on the next months. I guess if I find a way to just fucking accept it, and be happy with my boyfriend, and come out to more friends and my parents, it might just be the best thing that's ever happened to me.
    That was really my reasoning mind talking.
     
  20. Bolin

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    Best: Joined Tumblr, lost a shit load of weight to the point where I'm actually slim instead of obese.

    Worst: Literally everything else in my life.