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Are you attracted to people who look like you?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Psychedelic Bookmarks, Mar 9, 2008.

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Can you be attracted to people who look like you?

  1. Yes, sometimes

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  2. No, I'm not attracted to my own style

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  3. No, being with someone the same as me is a turn off

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  4. No, because both of the above ^

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  1. RaRa

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    So many thread necros lately. :slight_smile:

    I've never seen anyone who looked like me or even close to looking like me...I have a unique face I must admit. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I don't think I would like it though. :slight_smile:
     
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    When I was like 6, I saw a guy who looked exactly like me, in a waterpark. He was just as bewildered as I, but we didn't speak a single word anyway. It was weird.
    Then, I didn't find him attractive at all.

    Nowadays, I'd totally date myself. I might have been influenced by The Time Traveler's Wife :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: (the book!)
     
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    I understand that I might have a bit of a generic look. Basically petite young-looking blonde twink xD

    And no, I'm not attracted to that. At all. I like men who are all manly and grawr but not too manly because that's just creepy.
     
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    I know what would be interesting - dating a cis-gendered version of myself! But yeah, if I were to find a clone of myself, I would so date him. Twincest?... Clonecest?
     
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    No, I'm not my type. But 'my type' is actually how I want to be.
     
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    Oh, no, please.
    I'm so not my type. I'm kind of a tomboy, I like more... well, girly girls, but not too girly. Not like one of my friends, who's ALWAYS going on about her hair, and ALWAYS wears too much make up.
    My current gf is exactly my type. Long hair, only a bit mascara, likes dresses, but also jeans, doesn't wear high heels (because I'm really small, and I don't want to feel even smaller)
     
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    No thank you.

    Agh! Another thread necro.
     
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    I don't think I've ever seen somebody who looks like me. <.<
     
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    I love chicks that are like guys - can do guy things with them.
    And I love guys that are sometimes more feminine than chicks (why is it gay or bi guys use smiley icons, even athletic ones, whereas girls don't? That always seemed funny to me.)
    Overall I'm attracted to everything, mainly people of all variety.
    Yeah... I'd be a Woodstock hippie.
     
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    Definately yes. Its weird the number of gay couples I see that look so much alike....
     
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    I have been attracted to people who look like me before but I'm definitely not my type.

    My ideal girl would be dark-haired, a little bit taller and leaner than me and a little bit femmier than me.
     
  12. The Dudeh

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    Well sort of. I'm generally attracted to guys who have the same clothing style as me and same style hair :')
     
  13. Makaio1

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    No, and I've never seen anyone who remotely looks like me either! haha.

    Same personality? Yes. We'd know what grinds eachothers gears so to speak and what we want in a relationship.
     
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    It would be neat to meet someone whose stature is similar to mine. XD I'm kind of taller than most girls my age. But then again, it really doesn't matter too much.
     
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    It's quite possible for me to be attracted to others who look like me, because I kinda look like what I'm attracted to (long hair is a huge turn-on!). If I answered this a year ago, though, it'd be a no.

    Personality-wise... um... there seems to be a big, gaping hole in my personality, so that's no good.
     
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    No I never been attracted to people look physically like me.
     
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    Well everytime I look myself in the mirror I throw a kiss so I guess thats a yes.
     
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    I wouldn't say that I am, but a lot of people said my first girlfriend looked a lot like me. We both had blonde hair and blue eyes, but other than that I didn't see a resemblance. I'm short and built like a brick shit house, and she's tall and not muscular at all. So take that however you want.
     
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    I look pretty androgynous, so yes, sometimes, a lot of the times, they don't look like me at all. All (hopefully) look better than I do.