Are gay guys really that "different"

As far as I know; girly gay guys are more than girly straight guys.

I know more than 1000 straight guy and only one of them is girly.

 

IMHO it has nothing to do with being "more girly", or "sissy". For me, all the gay guys I've known (which I have to say, isn't really that many), or met, have something about them that I seem to be able to spot a mile away. It's hard to explain, but the best I can do is, they've all ( though individual in personality and character, as is everyone) been somehow more innately sensitive, honest, and, dare I say, kind, than any straight guy I've ever known. I couldn't say how so, but there's some quality about the gay guys I've had contact with at least, (even if I haven't necessarily liked the person in question), that makes "them" much more pleasurable to be around than straights.
I should just say (with a grin) although very content in their company, I've never come on to any of them, just in case you were wondering, I have full respect for their orientation, as they've always had for mine (whatever that may have been).
My two cents worth.

 

Honestly, I can't tell the difference. Other guys express themselves in the way that they want to. I think straight guys who have really feminine moments are the ones that stick out.

 

No. A person's personality is generally independent from their sexuality.