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Anyone hate talking about their sexuality?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Tre, Mar 29, 2017.

  1. bluesunlight

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    I've never had a problem discussing it with people I know well. I'll even answer questions if people I don't know well -or at all- ask, but that kind of gets annoying because those people tend to treat and view you as some kind of exotic creature or carnival sideshow.
     
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  2. juxlia

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    This.
     
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    I just act like its a big joke to people and it usually goes over well, for them anyway.
     
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    Well, yeah, why wouldn't I talk about it. I don't really care. I don't know if I'd just straight up disclose my sexuality when I first meet new people that will be or might be a part of my life though. I guess that would depend on if I wouldn't mind if they knew my sexuality right off the bat (I might not like it if this is one of the first things they know about me because I don't want to be seen as 'the gay girl' from the start) and on if I'd feel safe to do so.
     
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    It's getting annoying the more people I tell because I seem to get ignorant responses!!!
     
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    It can be very scary just to say "I'm gay."
     
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    Lesbian stuff, I'm happy. But I'm still scared about being trans so I hide that s--- well. It's sad but personally I've found it's easier to be seen as a les than a trans guy. People don't really believe we're real yet.