Hi there, I know this is going to sound like I want a pity party but I'm going to post anyway. Recently, I started to explore my gender identity because I feel like in order to fully accept myself as gay, I felt like I would be happier socializing with girls on a personal level and viewing guys as more of someone who I would like to date. Since I have started gossiping and socializing with other females, I have become more comfortable in my sexuality and my inner feelings. However, there is still a part of me that feels guilty for acting more feminine because I feel like I am contributing to the common cultural phenomenon in which all gay men like more feminine habits and straight men like sports and whatnot. As a result, I feel like I'm making it more difficult more masculine gay men to be accepted into society. Do you know how I can get over these feelings?