Here's my dilemma: I want to get a binder, but my family's homophobic, transphobic, the whole shebang. I've heard some companies have discreet packaging, but the problem is my parents will want to know what I ordered when a box addressed to me arrives. Also the problem with buying online is my parents can see my bank account so they'll know if I order something and they'll ask. I was thinking maybe I could talk to one of my friends (who's genderfluid and their parents are supportive) and see if maybe I could ship it to their house or something and as for money maybe they could technically order it and I give them the money (if it's physical cash my parents can't exactly see where it's going). But even if that would work and if I got a binder, it would be really hard to hide it from my parents/family. My sister and I basically share a room (it's an unfinished basement with a curtain dividing our side if you're wondering what I mean by basically) so I'd have to be careful there because she's even more homophobic/transphobic than my parents. The other thing is with laundry my parents would see it. I don't really know what to do. It doesn't help that I don't have much room for spending right now because I'm trying to save it for a school trip thingy either. Does anyone see a way I could make this work? Or will I have to wait until I move out or something?