I've had crushes on boys when I was younger, but they never lasted long and lately I've been finding girls more aesthetically pleasing than men, (I say aesthetically pleasing because I don't actually feel SEXUAL attraction to neither men or women) I don't know if that makes me a bisexual or a lesbian. I've only actually fell in love with a boy once, and it was three years ago, so maybe I only thought I was in love with him because of the heteronormativity? And over the last few years I've had some obsessive friendships with girls, like I would be jealous of them and all, and I'm starting to think that means I was falling for them. So does this mean I am a lesbian or does the minor attraction I feel to men today(it used to be more significant) stil counts? Or maybe I'm asexual, because I only ever experience physical attraction
I can relate a lot. I've had crushes on guys before but now I find girls really attractive. I don't have any sexual attraction to guys but for girls it's slowly starting to build up. Never been in love with a boy but I was a while ago in love ( for the first time lol ) with a girl and she was straight ;-; I get jealous too about my girl friends. I define myself as a lesbian but I guess it's really how you want to be labeled. Or just don't label yourself at all. Either way, you do have some feelings for girls on an emotional level. I hope this helped and I wish you good luck on figuring it out! ^^
