First some context. I'm a gold star gay man. There are lots of gay men who are just enthralled , mesmerized, and obsessed with straight men. There are many gay men whose ultimate fantasy is to be able to have sex with a hot straight man. There are lots of gay men who prefer masculine men over more effeminate men. Are there lots of lesbians who are absolutely obsessed with straight and feminine women ? Are there many lesbians who has an ultimate fantasy of having sex with a straight and feminine woman ?
There are many lesbians who would love to have sex with a straight woman. I am not one of them. I need a girl who is at least as into it as I am. Could be because I am not a very sexual person to begin with, but I need my partner to be into it for me to be into it. Real straight women may act like they're into it, but they aren't really. Unless they are secretly a little bi...they would rather be with a man.
I can look at a straight woman and think she is attractive, but I would not want to be with a straight woman, because her heart wouldn't be in it. I do prefer feminine women, just not straight ones.
Like the others have said, I wouldn't want to be with someone who wasn't into me. I do like feminine women.
I'm not obsessed with straight women I don't fantasise about anyone gay or straight. But I will notice an attractive straight woman. I don't think anything sexual about her just she's pretty. I wouldn't be with a straight woman because I'd prefer someone who was in to me and wouldn't probably leave me for a man.
I don't think there's a clear answer to that. My girlfriend seemed to have preferred straight women when we first started talking. In fact I'm pretty sure she was a bit disappointed when she realized i wasn't straight LOL... but me, personally, wouldn't be the slightest bit interested in that battle. So I really think everyone is a little different. Something of the "challenge" turns people on, in all directions, but not everyone is into that. I'm not.
I'm not into straight women either. Like others have said, I don't want to be with someone who isn't as much into it as I am. But I do know lesbians who like the thrill/challenge of chasing a straight woman.
