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Well be ready for when he does something. Imagine him touching you in bed, and what you'd do to respind; then his next move, and then yours. Think...
My best friend is clearly gay. (I'm gay). He's tried a few times to talk to me but makes no progress. I'm stuck knowing what to say to help him...
I think you need to make a move on him. Caress his chest, play with his nipple, kiss his nipple type stuff. You've done more than that. It is...
He's clearly interested. And I'd say your early behaviour of not reacting will have confused him. You seem to want explicit verbal communication...
I think you have to go for this. Meet her, or write her a note. You can say it's new and you're unsure. I'm a gay and out male. I seem to attract...
Oh well done you! You seem to have lotsof clarity. I hope you've retained that and it's going ok for you. I'm sure it's tough, but also good to...
Yes, i wouldn't hang out outside work until the friendship is working and not painful to you. I'd worry that secretly you'd be hoping for...
It took me a long time to realise that my mother was essentially emotionally abusive and suffered a personality disorder. Reading Emotionally...
The only thing that's helped me is writing it all down as if i'm writing a letter to them, every few days, but never handing it over. I suspect...
I'd come out to her, but don't necessarily take the conversation further the first time. She might not be expecting to have a chat, so gushing it...
Yes, you've said everything you can. I'd not warn him, but when the time comes chat, tell him how you feel, etc and it's just too much for you....
Self preservation of a straight identity. Almost all closets run straight to a girlfriend when half outed and either continue teasing from there,...
If he was only horny he'd have made the proposition ages ago. You spent time hanging out, he must like spending time with you.
It seems like you've been incredibly patient, brave, clear and done everything you can. It seems no tactic is working in this guy. Now I know more...
It's not a scene I know much about, but if he's there for a few nights, couldn't you propose vanilla night one, and fantasy night 2 or 3? Seems...
No, I've never thought about little boys, and no it's not normal.Apart from being illegal it would be absolutely devastating to any boy if you...
I don't think talking it through with guys in the closet works, they go into their head and get scared like it's some big rational decision to...
Sounds like you don't want to do this, or not yet, so you shouldn't feel pressured. It'll do neither of you favours. He's expressed his wishes...
Cheers. Yes, thinking yesterday about it I realised I have to make it more clear I like him. It should be obvious by what I've said, but I can see...