I should add that this was written while I was in a pretty good and reflected place. Truth be told, I'm feeling kind of desperate for connection....
This is going to be a little long. It was the most beautiful relationship I've ever had and it lasted almost two years. For what seems like a...
I'm sensitive and love being a top. Only thing is, I need to get going by the other person kissing me first, especially if I'm really attracted...
Breaking up via text is disrespectful and cowardly. It happened to me once. I decided to grab the bull by its horns and called her up straight...
Well, what do you mean "What if they're right?" Putting words to your sexual orientation is not a test or a competition with the final right...
No such thing as the friend zone. It's primarily a derogatory term used by heterosexual men when they feel entitled to sex with a woman and they...
(*hug*):kiss::eusa_clap
Congratulations!!!! I'm so happy for you!!!
Well, I can't give you the answer, but I think it means you're on the right path. I'd encourage you to keep asking yourself questions. Keep...
I think there are a couple of things you need to think through very carefully not just in general, but with the person you are actually interested...
First of all: Let's kill off the idea that "social construct = not real". Something being socially constructed tells us how it came into being and...
Shit. I want to have dreams like that!
I know. It sucks.
I know how you feel. I get the same way. I do the black/white thing too once I detect rejection, like if she pulls away or something. And if I...
There is one thing in your post that I think is important: The fear of two things, which I think are combined—your fear of getting ”trapped” by...
Was the disagreement over something that is important to you? Did she behave disrespectfully towards you? Did she or you apologize for any...
I don't think she's the type to flatter herself, and if she does, it's OK. I wanted to give her something and that's the nicest thing I could give...
Hon, self-pity and self-compassion are two very different things. The first says everything is everyone else's fault and the world owes you, so...
Thing is, it's weird. We used to meet often when both of us went clubbing often, but she had a girlfriend then, so I stayed respectful of that....
Too late, I already said a shortly after sobering up that I'm sorry for saying all the things I said while drunk, although I meant them and...
