We needs more success stories like yours here! That's what keeps me going!
Amazing stories! Thank you for sharing it!
Hi Geo Trekker! I am exactly where you are... married to wonderful wife, two kids, out only to her, but she doesn't want to believe it! I cannot...
Its now over 5 years since I acknowledged to myself that I am gay and came out to my then partner, now wife. After some serious initial...
You sound like me 20 years ago. Now I am married with 2 kids and feeling hopelessly trapped. As much as I love my kids and wife, I would do...
Hi Barista, I thought about your post a few times over the weekend as I've followed your story here since you started a few years ago at the same...
Nerdbrain, the brain is an organ that has evolved in order to help us survive and the way it does this is by creating associations, i.e. you hear...
I disagree. When people here recommend coming out, they are mostly talking about coming out to their spouses, which is a totally different thing....
I am the same situation as you, JToivonen. I am also struggling to reconcile deep-seated religious and moral beliefs, my strong desire to keep my...
I haven't posted here in a while, for those who can't remember my story, it is a fairly typical one here: a late 30s guy in a long-term...
Thank you for such a honest reply. I too foolishly 'chose' to be straight when I was 22, like you. I think that kids are a deal-breaker for me as...
David, I am in very similar place as you apart from your age. I am 30 something and have been 15 years into a relationship and we have two small...
Hi, I've been reading your posts for over a year and I've been thinking a lot lately about what happened to you. It affected my confidence in my...
I am in a very similar situation with the pendulum swinging between hoping that I can make things work and keep my family together and the urge to...
You seem to be overthinking things too much. It also looks like you worry too much about definitions, like am I x or z, in order to then start...
I am just letting things flow organically and taking our lives to where they need to go, eventually. Rather than force things to happen quicker...
I ended up staying together for now, but its a daily struggle. The thing is that after coming out we had a sort of reset in our relationship and...
I am a bit like you, just older. When I was about 20, I started realizing that I could be gay and there would be no way back once I allowed it to...
Hi Barista, just need to say that I admire very much what you've achieved so far. I know you probably know this, but just as a reminder, the...
