...not sure why my reply was cut off but Scott. Once I dropped my guilt and repression for wearing pantyhose and discovering many who did the...
Scott. I went through the same thing. Can I tell you that as a life long pantyhose wearer once I felt l
Conersky, what you did was wonderful. Wonderful in that you were true to yourself. I am so happy for you and yes, its overwhelming. The first...
Survivor, I can tell you that your thoughts and feelings are not unusual and its something I went through as well. But you have made a brave step...
I wore tights in a play and other boys did too. It stuck with me and was a turn on. Years later I saw a sex documentary and two male actors were...
a great story with some sage advice https://ottawacitizen.com/opinion/columnists/mayor-jim-watson-after-40-years-im-opening-the-closet-door
. How true. I went tentatively into a session of sexual intimacy and came out of it an hour later a changed person. It felt right.
Oldguy55, I came out to my first friend at 48. And in your situation it has to be tough. I can only state that you are not unusual in that you...
amiready, after reading all the banter here I think you have a lot of anxiety about being with men sexually. you want to...but are afraid of...
a tough question to answer as its different for everyone. to be honest, 'gay' people when growing up were people that effeminate in nature and...
The first time I had anal sex. It had built up for a long time and I finally took the plunge. And it was a relief, exhilarating, calming and...
I think what I got out of this....and this is so true when it come to attraction, sexuality, love...is that doesn't matter if you are gay or...
Mail a letter. It will be a shock (possibly) but not probably. If you have thought about it this long. A few days extra will not make a...
Years ago, I was online chatting with someone as we had a common interest. He said...."well then you're bisexual!" I was horrified. I was...
You just made me cry when I read this. Seriously. I feel good now too. It's a journey we both understand.
Gay Euphoria? Interesting. It took a few years for me to accept that I was gay and it was a sexual experience that turned the corner and that is...
So true! I commend you. And yes, the struggle is very difficult but you are a brave person. If no one else on this planet ever says you have...
When I was 6, we had a school play and I had to wear tights. That stayed with me as I liked it. The next year there was another play and another...
Not at all. I came out at 48.
Chip provides some very sage advice. Accept yourself first and that attraction to men will follow. Yes, we all like penises and that is a...