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  1. Xtian99
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    Anyone got depression because of sexulity ? I'm looking for hope.

    Oh Linux Lenny hang in there! Life causes depression sometimes (sexuality, relationships, finding love, expectations, aspirations, self doubt,...
    Post by: Xtian99, May 15, 2014 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Gay man facing choices.

    thanks for all the great responses - Wdwrker loved yours. Agree with everyones focus on self love and self worth etc. And especially the part...
    Post by: Xtian99, May 1, 2014 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Devasted

    Hang tough. Cry alot. get it all out- but know that you are not the only one to have gone through this and many of us have made it- so you can...
    Post by: Xtian99, May 1, 2014 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Gay man facing choices.

    OGS agreed- its not a gay straight thing but a universal for all- a kind of "love fatigue" where after enough bad you just don't want to deal with...
    Post by: Xtian99, Apr 24, 2014 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Very unusual story- am I gay??

    I am slightly OCD myself. Obsessively worrying about an issue, while beyond our control, is sometimes more worrying than the issue itself and...
    Post by: Xtian99, Apr 24, 2014 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Gay man facing choices.

    Molly1977- thank you! ElliaOtaku- understand your (very good) point and I have had love that ended peacefully and we are still friends, just...
    Post by: Xtian99, Apr 24, 2014 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Gay man facing choices.

    45 year old gay man confronting a choice between two paths for the future, due to my psychological makeup. Welcome input from anyone else who has...
    Thread by: Xtian99, Apr 24, 2014, 15 replies, in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Solitude

    Post by: Xtian99, Mar 20, 2014 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Solitude

    BlueSky- then you have to remove all the people who have alcohol/drugs issues, monogamy issues and personality issues (self sabotage, low self...
    Post by: Xtian99, Mar 20, 2014 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Solitude

    great to hear from you- i can relate! the gay community has always been a let down for me as well- never found it very fulfilling, always felt...
    Post by: Xtian99, Mar 20, 2014 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Did she forget...or is that my answer????

    she could also be wondering what's going on with you two and realizing the road you two have been on- so is pulling back a bit bc she is tentative...
    Post by: Xtian99, Mar 20, 2014 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    Solitude

    hi all I am wondering, as folks get older, is anyone experiencing a contentment in solitude that that may have not had before? i am 45, have my...
    Thread by: Xtian99, Mar 20, 2014, 15 replies, in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    What if love isn't real?

    Love is indeed real- it is the only thing in life that really matters in the end, and that makes it the most beautiful thing but also the most...
    Post by: Xtian99, Mar 20, 2014 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    The Subtle (or not so subtle) Self-Hating

    Rose- I know this is difficult for you to see objectively because your are so rightly hurt by what happened, but think of sitting in a restaurant...
    Post by: Xtian99, Feb 20, 2014 in forum: LGBT Later in Life
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    What's it like growing older as a gay man?

    45 here... will tell you a few things that I wish I had known at your age. *the fact that you want a relationship and love are good things, but...
    Post by: Xtian99, Feb 13, 2014 in forum: Coming Out Advice
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