Early: when kids would call me sissy and faggot and girly, when my friends would look at magazines with hot women and it did nothing for me, when...
Since posting this a few months ago, I resolved to "grease the skids" so to speak and strip away the straight facade I have spent 4 decades...
"And I think I am on my way to being genuinely happy, maybe for the first time." Congrats, Link. You've been such a helpful guy on these forums...
I've come out to myself and only myself over the past few years. I understand me myself so much better. I'm more focused and effective as a...
I totally get what you're saying. Although I have been attracted to men for as long as I remember, I was convinced that there's no way I could be...
I've fantasized being a top all my life but as I have just recently come to accept that I am not straight, not bi, but absolutely 100% gay, I've...
Fun thread. 1. My eyes 2. My angular face 3. How masculine I look with stubble 4. The hair on my chest, abs, legs, butt -- not a ridiculous...
I think people would be shocked to learn I'm gay, but I am letting go of the facade and being myself more and more each day. It'll become obvious...
Neck, just below the ears. When I see a hot guy I just want to kiss him in this spot. What's hot, you ask? I like well-groomed, narrower face,...
This. Exactly. This breaking point is what makes the decision. Some never get there, but many do. You have come to the right place.
Good luck, Mr. President. I'm in a similar situation - married to a great woman, great kids, great life, gay. Farther along in marriage and life...
I was always raised to believe that gay wasn't a choice and that gays and lesbians were not bad people. Our family knew a few openly gay people as...
When I'm introspective, my mind settles on the Floyd. "Comfortably Numb" (hello...is there anybody in there?), "Us and Them"
I could have posted this myself, 10 years ago. I'm about 10 years farther along my life's journey and at some point in my late 30s, I accepted...
Excellent post, brilliantly written. Welcome. 20 years ago I was in your shoes, questioning, wondering what my attraction and fantasies over...
This. Love everything about the look and feel of hairy men.
In Phase 1 of my coming out of hiding, I have noticed just how much I'm covering up in terms of mannerisms and speaking style alone. I have...
The first part of my coming out process is a commitment to myself to just be me with regard to simple things. I'm going to buy those tighter...
Too funny! Same here. What kind did you buy? I ordered some Andrew Christian briefs. My first time wearing briefs. I like them.
It's pretty easy to respond when prompted. Herero sex is the only sex I know, outside of my fantasy life, so you could say I'm conditioned to it,...
