I started getting really specific with labels at one point, and then I don't know, I started to let things go. Bisexual fits best but it's not a...
I'm sorry you're going through what you're going through. I can relate, though I'm much younger than you: I almost got into something serious with...
Chag sameach to you too! :) :)
Not trying to figure anything out, but if you can relate that's awesome. I've been back and forth and all around identitywise on this site, from...
My girlfriend is asleep in bed across the room but I feel worlds away. I cried so much tonight and she listened, then passed out; I assume she had...
Everyone has a different experience of gender. I identify with a lot of what you say; I've taken to dating mostly women and id-ing as queer. In my...
I go back and forth on gender, but yeah I feel very much like a kid in my masculine expression. I've tried dressing "femme" as a way of adulting,...
It's hard when your mom is so hard on you for something that really doesn't matter. What does it matter if you want a short haircut and a...
There's this pressure in queer circles to be the "good" representation of queer: not too sad, full of pride, making everyone else feel good about...
Re: Did any of you not know that you were attracted to the same sex when you were a t I second Chip; denial can be very powerful. Looking back I...
It's not stupid. Coming out isn't for everyone. But also don't do it in the hopes that it won't be a big deal; as my mom (who is accepting) told...
Yes. I didn't feel like my feelings clicked with anyone til I fell for a friend who was a girl. That changed stuff for me. I guess that's a pretty...
Yes!! You got this. I'm glad you're taking a moment to look back and acknowledge how far you've come. You're doing alright, you just need to...
I have embraced it and feel positively about my identity nowadays. But despite getting involved in community efforts, not worrying so much about...
Not to minimize what you're feeling, but I think a lot of people after coming out feel not "queer enough". As if it's a competition, an identity...
You're asking really interesting questions, MS001. How did I compartmentalize it? I don't know. There are a few ways: -I knew I was weird in all...
Depressed. Unsettled. Ashamed. Giddy. Embarrassed. Lonely. Awesome. Pathetic. Terrified. Alive. Anxious. Like a million emotions of all sorts...
Every time I thought I had a type it would change! I generally like people who top me a little but who but also switch, who are more butch than...
Re: Is your sexual attraction broader than romantic attraction? (besides ace-identifi Separation of romantic and sexual attraction can be hard...
Sorry you're going through a rough patch. It's normal to experience depression after such a big life change (for anyone who thinks it's NBD these...
