Hi. You're getting great advice from others in the group, so I'll just add to it for what it's worth. I told my wife I'm gay which was difficult...
Congratulations, Eddy. That was very brave of you. My son is only 5, so it will be awhile to discuss with him. My wife is being supportive of my...
Great news, Rose. Way to go!:)
Thanks for the kind replies, everyone. I've never felt until now that I could just let go and be comfortable in my own skin. It really helps to...
Welcome to EC! What a wonderful time in your life just starting out and experiencing love. Enjoy it.
Hi everyone, Just felt like posting something today. I'm not a big social person. I usually keep to myself with just a few friends. I never did...
Hi, Just an idea but I love gift cards. Not sappy and sure to please. If they have a favorite place to eat or a hobby store they frequent, you...
It sounds like a lot of us get caught watching gay movies/porn. I was stressed out from hiding my sexual attraction for men. It brought me great...
Best wishes in your new place. I'm still living with my wife and child, but we've discussed my leaving. Scary to think of being on my own. I'll...
Hi Eddy, Welcome to EC. I've been on here for just a short time and I like it. Hope you do too. Eric
Hi Robert, I read your latest posting and had to respond to something you said. I'm in a similar situation with a minor child in the home. You...
Hi. It's funny but I almost wish I had your problem.It would save my marriage. My wife is okay with my interest in men as long as I'm attracted...
Congratulations on the talk with your wife. Bet you're kind of relieved. Not all problems solved, but at least she knows what's been on your mind....
Consider seeking counseling. My company offers free sessions and I think some health insurance plans offer mental health services that could help...
Hi, I'm also 51 and married, and I was confronted by my wife recently. She got an email from Amazon to rate some gay-themed movies that she...
Hi, Well, now we know why you're so good at expressing yourself. It would take me days to write such a lengthy post. I get tongue-tied. Anyway,...
Hi, I'm in somewhat similar situation with a preschooler. I agree you can't wait for kids to grow up. They'll be happier and healthier if you are...
Just to add to this, I'm making it sound more simplistic than it is. A few weeks ago, my wife found out I had watched some gay-themed movies. She...
Hi. I'm 51 yo, married 6+ years. Always conflicted over feelings and desires for men. Finally came out to myself and told wife I'm gay. She's hurt...
Hi everyone. Just coming out at 51 yo, better late than never. Excited for what life has in store. Best wishes.