I have been married a very long time (35 years and 2 different wives). I am deeply depressed that I will not be able to call an end to a marriage...
This post is sort of an update of my experiences since coming out to my wife. She allowed me to see another man (much younger than I) and it...
Whoa! Scott, Chip is a rock on these boards and is always right, or at least in my circumstance. I've been married twice both around 14 years...
Seems to me that you are approaching this discussion with your wife quite well. Therapy is good. I would suggest holding off on telling her all...
Just curious Alex, does your bf work in a highly mach environment?
Paul, Welcome. The best advice and, clearest indication of better days to come is to read through some previous threads as "55" mentioned and...
Abdok First off I hope your extended family in Syria are safe from the awful strife there. You mentioned about addiction that is really...
Your wife is very angry and she is in a great deal of fear. Anger usually covers fear. As I see it, and I am no great sear, you have two...
I weep for the torture you have had to endure. EC is a safe place to explore your plight and grow beyond and away from your circumstances. You...
Hi Alex, I agree with JimL. Staying closeted and in such a vociferous fashion indicates shame. There are a few things you can do; listen,...
I would say they are reevaluating. Also, I would suggest they are feeling emotional pain and are not willing to remain as vulnerable as they may...
I am cursed. A few months back I finally came to accept I was gay and I told my wife. As I have previously posted my wife has been truly...
Stress and depression are bedfellows when we operate in our lives contrary to what our true self knows us to be. Hang in there man!!!
Hi ATLMM I'm really impressed with your grasp of your situation-you have a great amount of clarity. As the guys have suggested, you will make it...
Hi Alex You know already how much I appreciate reading your posts and the wonderful love story that has flourished. It was my wish, like many...
Abdok Welcome. The men on EC are here to help and will be a tremendous resource for each move you take towards an authentic life, without guilt...
Hi Alex, I sense there's a part of you that's seeking more authenticity about being gay with others in your life and your partner is not. I am...
We spent a few hours at the beach today talking about recent events and how sad she feels. How she still wants to travel with me again and, would...
I'm seeing my guy today and I plan on spending the night with him. I have not told Patrice and I am feeling like a shit. Probably should. With...
