It's okay, we all need a good rant now and again. I get what you mean: sometimes and it's turned out to be true at times), I feel like I am more...
Great minds, as they say. :) Let us know how it goes, @AnxiousReader. We're here for you, whatever happens.
You hit the nail right on the head, and you articulated it in a way I've had trouble doing: there is no right or wrong way to be gay--the only...
I agree with @silverhalo: there will be those who catch on, and others who won't. Some of the latter group might eventually get there, but it...
I don't think comp het so much, but I will say there were definitely elements of heteronormativity that had an impact on not only not realizing I...
There's honestly nothing I can add that others haven't already said: I think they're right, that you feel more comfortable/safer around other...
Hey, I'm happy to help--you don't owe me anything, I promise. We all need someone to talk to now and then, we all need help to overcome certain...
You are not a spineless coward. I get it though, I do--the shame of having been closeted, of not being out sooner/understanding yourself sooner......
Hello @ElleInParadise, and welcome to EC! I'm so sorry you're struggling with this. @Chiroptera has made some excellent points, so all I can do...
Hello, @JavyD3! I'm sorry your girlfriend left you; I'm sure it was a bit of a shock for her and she didn't know how to cope with it, but I know...
I can't say with absolute certainty, but it does sound like he likes you, too. Your conversations (particularly about women) seem to be a subtle...
No problem, I'm happy to help. And I really relate to that last bit, as well: I felt left behind for the longest time, and sometimes I still do....
With regards to your mom, your situation sounds a bit like one of my husband's cousins. She's in her early 20s, is engaged to a woman, and I know...
Oh hon, I can 100% relate. Like you, I struggled (still do) with body dysmorphia, internalized misogyny...the whole kit and caboodle. I had a hard...
100% agree with Chip. He's incredibly knowledgeable about OCD and its symptoms. Porn, as has been said, is not a good indicator on its own; its...
Hello, @AnxiousReader! I get how you feel--dealing with those who don't really give credence to bi people existing. It's frustrating, to say the...
Ha, small world! Are you in the May or June half? And no problem at all! We all have to start somewhere, and EC is a great place to talk about...
Welcome to EC, @lostconfused. I would say the trauma has most definitely had a negative impact, both on your attractions to men, and in leading...
Welcome to EC, @Lumity4evs! We're very happy to have you, and I hope you find your time here both illuminating and comforting. :)
Welcome to EC, @Bob J20! We're happy to have you, and I'm glad you've already made some connections. Empty Closets is all about making those...