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What are you thinking?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Mirko, Feb 28, 2017.

  1. Violet Rain

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    You're so lucky. Daddy was known as a "nice guy" around town but with his undiagnosed diabetes (he was terrified to go to the doctor despite knowing something was wrong) he had a hair trigger temper and his beliefs were horrible... Looking back I see that now, although I did not at the time. I'd love to go back in time and slap sense into him even though I know it wouldn't work. He was too dang stubborn and too set in his toxic ways.

    In other news, it's pouring rain here. My cat has the right idea, she's sound asleep on her perch by my computer area. I wish I could join her, but I have work to do, book promos.
     
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    Trying to come out is a good sign. It shows you are increasingly becoming comfortable and are getting ready to let friends or person important to you know. It is okay to try it several times, and it is also okay to feel 'not yet.' With time, it will happen. (*hug*)
     
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    I’m trying to figure out is it difficult for me to get to my feet from the floor because I’m 31 or is it the degenerative muscle condition I have? Or both.
     
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    Another scene done in the manuscript I'm writing. One more PG rated scene, then it's to the blue-hot stuff. I'm not used to writing pure erotica so this should be interesting. I hope things flow easily when I get to the ultra steamy parts.
     
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    Why can't I just have been born as a woman?
     
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    Something really good happened to me this weekend and I’d like to share it with a close friend of mine but I know that I would just get judged for it - either overtly or she’d think it even if she wasn’t saying it. Why do people have to be closed-minded? Sorry, bit of a rant.
     
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    My mother is driving me crazy, first she limits the amount of bread I’m allowed eat a day and now she’s limiting the amount of ham. She doesn’t seem to get I’m 31 and have my own money and I know I’m fat. She can say the pack she bought has to last me a week but what’s to stop me from buying more. I already try to hide what I eat from her. How would she feel if I limited her wine or chocolate. Or her vape usage.
     
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    Why is life so complicated :sob:
     
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    First bits of snow today. Snow is pretty, but i hate the cold :confounded::thermometer_face:
     
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    Snow? WOW! We got hit with over a foot of snow on Friday. I was out of town and almost got my truck stuck trying to get into my driveway when I came home...and I had it in 4-wheel drive low gear!
    .....David :gay_pride_flag:
     
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    I have cried so many times this week already. It's my worst week so far. Got troubles with lecturer who don't want to understand that I have no say in the matter, when I sometimes have to miss lecturs no matter how well I plan. You can't plan and predict everything in life, especially things regarding health. This course is almost finished, yet now I hate it, but I will complete it. Also my therapy appointment got moved forward, so did my physiotherapy appointmen, what I was preparing myself for. It all dissapointmed me and my workload have caused me so much stress.
     
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    Perhaps if my love life is going to remain dead, I should start writing romance so I can at least live through my characters. Or perhaps that would make it worse, ha.

    If only meet cutes actually happened. What I'd give to be in a café AU right now...
     
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    It’s already December and there’s still no snow
     
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    We've got all the snow here. Shoveling it is a workout. I'd gladly send some over. :slight_smile: It is like winter wonderland.
     
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    Please, send some this way :laughing:
     
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    I'm willing to share some too! We already had over a foot and then got 6" more last night!
    .....David :gay_pride-flag:
     
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    The fact that the only customer I had for a side hustle that I have been building for months was a scammer
     
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    Not sleeping well lately, the colder gloomier weather isn’t helping. Haha
     
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    It finally started snowing here a few days ago, and it's been on the unpredictable on/off cycle since then. It's just my city's usual offbeat weather cycle's precursor; getting whatever weather whenever. Last few years we had dry Decembers, sunny Februaries, and snowstorms in March!
     
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    Wanting to move forward in your life, but not knowing how to get there, so you plan it to death but you don't progress is one of the worst feelings!