How old were you when you had your first consensual same sex experience? Who was it with? I had my first consensual same sex experience when I was pretty young and I'm wondering if it's common.
I had my first consensual same-sex experience when I was eight. I was very young and curious, but I cared for her deeply. I had it with my best friend at that time.
My first same-sex experience was with my bestfriend as well. We were bestfriends by the time we were 8 but didn't start fooling around until we were in middle school. We never had sex but we experimented with holding hands, cuddling, kissing/making out and oral sex. We would hold hands while we were walking home from school trying to make sure no one saw us. It was the cutest thing ever, haha!
I was sixteen, my mom let my girlfriend sleep over (we had been together for like 3 days) and before I left the guest room we were dancing to a slow song on the radio and when it ended she kissed me. I was so surprised. The only other person I had kissed was a guy and it was awful lol, she changed my entire world.
From the results of the poll so far, it seems like 18-25 are the most common ages for people to have their first consensual same-sex experience. Very interesting!
BiBoyToy.....My answer depends on the definition of "sex experience". I'll assume it means penetration on the part of both partners. If so then I was 18. He was part of a group of guys that I met in the drama department during my first year of college. Sorry, I don't remember his name! .....David
I was thinking anything more than holding hands or cuddling. Even just making out, haha. I guess I should of been more specific.
For me the word consensual is key and it goes to the heart of issues concerning the age at which one can reasonably consent. In my view most 10-13 year olds don't have the developed capacity to offer informed consent and that's precisely why many countries in the world set a higher benchmark for age of consent. Although pre-adolescent young people may get swept up in sexualised contact with their peers there is a question mark as to how much real consent is being offered in these scenarios and it's for this reason that I selected 18-21 for myself. I can recall instances of 'game play' much earlier, but I wouldn't say I participated in this with any real notion of consent. At the time it just felt like an adolescent game with lots of silly laughter.
I didn't have my first consensual same-sex experience at 11, but that was when my bestfriend and I (at the time) stared cuddling and holding hands. It wasn't until we were in middle school (around the age of 12) that I started making out with him and giving him oral.
Well at 11 i had my first kiss with a girl that uses to annoy me, then we started to touch ourself while kissing, and every time we saw each other we did the same. But before that, like when we was 8 or 9 we used to cuddle and hold hands or even touching our butts cheekily.
I can also remember my first same-sex experience like it was yesterday as well. I often find myself daydreaming about it. Even to this day, I still have strong feelings for him, maybe even more so now than I did at the time.