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First Consensual Same Sex Experience (Poll)

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by BiBoyToy, Feb 24, 2021.

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How old were you when you had your first consensual same sex experience?

  1. 10-13

  2. 14-17

  3. 18-21

  4. 22-25

  5. 26-30

  6. 31-35

  7. 36-40

  8. 41+

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  1. BiBoyToy

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    I used consensual for lack of a better word. I guess "mutual" would be better fitting.
     
  2. BiBoyToy

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    I'm kind of surprised that ages 10-17 make up 41.4% of the answers!
     
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    There were TEN year olds who had sex??
     
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    I'm sure there are (I know someone who did) but I personally don't really think of first consensual experience as having sex PIV/PIA (although I'm sure some peoples first same-sex experience did include sex). I'm thinking of anything more than holding hands or cuddling: making out, touching sexually, giving/receiving oral, etc. The first time I ever made out with another boy and gave him oral was when I was in middle school, just barely older than 10.
     
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    First sexual contact was when a guy did oral on me in his car when I was 20. First PIA experience was with a guy I met when studying abroad in Japan when I was 21.
     
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    I have yet to have my first PIA experience. :frowning2: If you don't mind me asking, are you a top or bottom?
     
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    I'm sure it'll happen sooner or later, you just gotta be a bit patient^^

    Nope I don't mind! I'm verse but for that particular experience, I bottomed.
     
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    Definitely!

    I'm exclusively a bottom when it comes to guys. :slight_smile: I couldn't even imagine being a top with a guy, haha.
     
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    If you meant kissing and touching too, people do it in high school a lot, especially in the age of 14-17, so not surprising.

    But how much of that is joke kisses etc. , like PatrickUK mentioned, is another issue. I also joke kissed with a girl in high school, and I didn't mark that, because... well, it was a joke and it wasn't like a real kiss at all.
     
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    Not like a peck on the lips, but like full-blown making out. As far as touching, I'm referring to sexual touching, manual sex for example.

    I definitely agree that people growing up will joke around and kiss each other but it's usually a quick little peck on the lips.
     
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    Performed oral on a boy when I was 12, participated in first anal when I was 19. I did feel that the experience at age 12 was appropriate, since I initiated it and the other boy was slightly older at 13.
     
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    When I was 11 years old, I gave oral to my best friend, and we participated in mutual masturbation together. At age 12, that same friend, and another mutual friend, participated in a threesome. On that occasion I had anal sex for the first time.
     
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    I think i was 11 and it was with a boy(I am a male) and he was the same age. We used to walk home together. We "had sex" three days in a row. Each discovering our bodies. I didn't think it was bad and then I started to hear people make fun of two guys together. Trying to remember my thoughts then would most likely help me out with finally coming to terms with my orientation today whatever it is.
     
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    I also gave oral to my bestfriend around that age (we were in middle school) and I ended up giving him oral many times. Unfortunately, I never received anal sex from him. I definitely wish I did. I had super strong feelings for him and still do to this day. I haven't lost my anal virginity and losing it to him is like my biggest dream!
     
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    The guy I mentioned in my previous post always walked home with me as well (we were bestfriends from 4rd grade until 9th grade). no one was usually home.. We would hold hands. It was the cutest thing ever!
     
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    It’s still on my to-do list LOL. Coming out for the first time during a pandemic has been rather frustrating ... but I’m patient. At least it allows me to work on a few self improvement areas. Plus I’m married so there’s no simple easy way moving forward.
     
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    I had a friend that started inviting me over to her house after school, her parents worked late, I think I was 15 but might have been 14, I'm not sure. We made out and listened to music together. Unfortunately she wasn't serious about her attraction to me and that really hurt me. I think that was a recurring theme when I was younger, there seemed to be a lot of girls who liked to kiss other girls but not many who were actually attracted to girls. I think it says a lot about the pop culture of the early 00s, being a bi girl was kind of a status symbol, so there was a lot of performative lesbianism going on, at least in the groups I was involved with.
     
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    Yes it was!!! Sweet memory.
     
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    I had a buddy that would JO each other when I was 16. So, I guess that was my first same sex experience. But, I don't even remember it as a same sex experience. Just kids fooling around. I did have another male friend that I was really close to. We slept together (as in sleep) and would cuddle. But, I would never have done anything sexual with him. It was a gay relationship that I think we both understood and we were afraid to take it where it could have gone in those days. I keep thinking I should look him up and chat about it!

    My first real same sex sexual experience was when I was 58. It was totally different than what I did as a kid.
     
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    It certainly is. One of my best childhood memories. I wish I could go back in time!
     
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