I am still a virgin. I am waiting for someone that I can actually have a true relationship with. The search will not happen until I get a significant portion of this Aspie funk off of me. I cannot put into words how difficult that is. If I could transfer over the Internet the sensation of throwing a monitor into the wall repeatedly... that still wouldn't cover it. And even then, no matter what gender the person is, I do not want children. Ever.
I'm 34 and really still a virgin. I've had oral before, but not the full on real thing. And it just never felt right with girls. I couldn't do it. It always felt like a big lie so I found reasons to avoid it. (and yes, alot of the reasons were stupid .. but they worked.) I'm excited to see where this new path leads me and to show me what I've been missing all these years. My therapist seems to think it's going to blow my mind.
Lol! A bit soon? It was all fun. We were both in our later 11! It was more close to 12 and we enjoyed it but my full-on virginity loss (if you know what I mean) was when I was 13. Also there were all with guys, I have never thought about a girl. Also I think I developed sexually very fast. Freud would've loved my childhood. xD
I applaud the members who are virgins and don't feel they have to fulfill what others think or what studies show. That's strong. I was looking at the dates and this thread woke up. I could check box 2 for both - 17 and 23. Both good. I am reading this to mean climax. Playing doctor without arousal or without climax when younger, IMO, does not qualify.
17. I go back and forth between regretting losing it the way I did, and not really caring. It definitely had a lasting impact on the way I have sex and relate to the whole intimacy thing.
Still a virgin, which has surprised people before. The usual reply whenever this comes up in conversation is "You're kidding, right?" or "Why?" Even when I tell them that I'm gay they're still surprised, despite the fact that people tend to get into same-sex relationships later on average. I'm not ashamed of it though, and I'm still fairly young. Twenty going on twenty one. Haven't even had my first kiss yet.