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Is it worth it to ask someone out

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by aleshia, Nov 19, 2018.

  1. Nightlight

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    I'll write on your wall if I have questions to ask! Actually I'm crushing hard on a girl which I think have good chances with hehe
     
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    That works. I'm a born Good Samaritan, it is part of what makes life worthwhile for me to do things that benefit other people, especially when it comes to Love, romance, and LGBT issues. I don't claim to be any kind of "expert," but I have quite a bit of real world experience, and I'm always happy to share.

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  3. aleshia

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    Here's hoping we both have some luck!
     
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    Same here. I like this cute pansexual girl who seems to genuinely enjoy spending time with me. Let's hope we both have some luck.
     
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    UPDATE!!

    She said yes!!

    I asked her out at lunch today and we’re going to the movies on Saturday! We’ve been texting since 3:30 now. She’s so funny and genuine and she has the prettiest smile.

    I’m freaking out! I had the biggest dorkiest smile on my face for hours after she said yes. I probably looked insane.
     
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    Hope you managed to tear yourselves away from the phones and get some sleep. It's a school night.
     
  7. aleshia

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    Any tips for the date guys? I'm nervous.
     
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    Check out CosmicWolf's thread named "First Date!" Lots of advice in there. (Hope yours turns out like hers.) Short answer: your date will be nervous too. You know what the best way of getting over that is? Saying right out loud "Oh I'm a little nervous." Then you both laugh and feel better.

    Anyway, now I'm nervous. Yikes! :slight_smile:
     
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  9. aleshia

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    Thanks I’ll check it out!
     
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    it is 100% worth asking someone out. You need to feel like you have the guts to do something DO IT.