What do you find attractive in another person?

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  1. lil miss hikes

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    lol I love this
     
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    sapiosexual is when someone is attracted/turned on by intellect, that is a big one for me. I'm kind of a cross between a nerdy, outdoorsy, tomboyish kinda girl. I like smart, clean cut guys who can keep up with me and smart nerdy girls with glasses that I have to keep up with.
     
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    rather similar to yours, someone with dark humour but beneath they arent really sickos. it shows they're flexible and not at all bothersome over small things, which makes company with them much more approachable and comfortable to be around with :upside_down:
     
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    Looks-wise, probably someone who is more femme than butch. Someone my height or a bit taller. Someone who is introverted like me, but also likes to go out and meet up with friends/meet new people. Someone who is artistic/creative in some way (preferably in different ways to me because that's more interesting!). Someone who will happily go to gigs with me sometimes. Someone who likes to travel occasionally, but is equally happy hanging out at home. Someone who can put up with my need to take photographs of everything. Someone who loves animals as much as me, particularly birds and cats :smiley_cat:
     
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    There are times when I find people's laughs attractive. I think some people have great laughs, and for some reason I find myself more attracted to that person if I like their laugh.

    It's and odd thing, but it's something I like and don't know why.
     
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    Sad eyes, a beautiful smile, high cheekbones, a sharp jawline, thin lips, arched eyebrows, thin body, a voice that can both calm me down or turn me on, a sense of humor, humility, sensuality, confidence, kindness, intellect, passion, class, graceful hands, originality, deep thinking, loyalty, wit, compassion, artistry.
     
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    Hi! I find body hair to be the most attractive thing about a man physically, I also find confidence, humour and a general kind and positive attitude towards life. For example I was sitting next to a guy in class who had come in with no shirt on I asked him if he was ok he said 'sure, why wouldn't I be' (the teacher said nothing thank god I guess it's not breaking uniform hahahaha) I already thought he was very attractive but sitting next him shirtless gave me boner all class, it didn't help he kept rubbing his bare hairy chest against my bare leg (I wore shorts to class that day) while searching his backpack.
    <3
     
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    I like women who are:

    Sweet and caring, dorky and/or geeky, innocent, a little weird, and not considered conventionally attractive. That is, if I like your personality, I probably like you.
     
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    Honesty. Integrity. Intelligence (not necessarily book smarts, but a "thinker" of some sort). Perseverance. Character. The ability to look outside themselves. Open-mindedness. Reachable.
     
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    Different things as far as their looks go and different traits in personalities. I recently was in a situation where I went into a business that I hadn't gone into for a long time and the owner was now five years older than the last time I saw him. With a little more weight and muscle, nice glasses, and some gray in his hair, he looked way better than he did before. To me, anyways. He looked too much like a grown up kid before. This is a shout for those who are getting older and better.
     
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    Looks: short hair, hairy in general, tallish, and anywhere from skinny to chubbyish.

    Personality: the typical good qualities. I really appreciate humour and quirkiness lol
     
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    Physically, my eyes always are magnetized to dudes with long hair and facial hair. Though everything changes when I get to know a guy. I can dislike a beautiful long haired dude with fair amount of facial but doesnt know who Cedric Diggory and Newt Scamander is or know at least 150+ Pokemon. On the other hand, I can also like a dude who doesnt have all the physical traits that attracts me the most but knows how to beat me in my video and tabletop games and can be weird as me and loves nature the way I do.

    PS: Dudes in
    RED is a turn off for me :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    i am also attracted to people with beautiful eyes. in addition to that, i like people with a warm and supportive personality.
     
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    The eyes and the smile are the first things I notice. I agree with others that so much can be gained from looking at some ones eyes. I love when women have that look of kindness and an old soul in their eyes.

    The smile is also important. I want to see if it is an genuine unabashed goofy smile or a forced smile. Let me see how much you are willing to expose yourself to others.
     
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    Someone with a good personality.
     
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    I've only liked a few guys, but they've each looked pretty different from each other. The guy I like now...his eyes. Holy shit, I could seriously stare into them for hours and that's only through photos. Absolutely incredible.
     
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    I'm also sapiosexual -that is a really important factor for me. That and lovely brown hair. *sigh*
     
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    When I look at a person for the first time I notice the light in their eyes and the curve of their smile. I love someone who is strong willed but can also laugh a little. Passionate and loving.
     
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    As domestic as this is: good with kids and has good manners.

    I guess that sort of thing is usually indicative of overall good character :slight_smile:
     
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    Weird and goofy, spontaneous, nerdyish, short (no idea why) open to trying new things, wide sense of humor and a firm grasp of the art of sarcasm.

    While I am no super buff and high stamina-ed athlete, being in average physical fitness is preferred. I like going out and doing stuff, and its no fun if the other person has to stop and rest ever few minuets.
     
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