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What do you find the hardest/most anoying part about being gay?

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  1. DiamondLife2016

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    YOU DONT LOOK GAY?! WELL THEN I CHOPPED MY HAIR OFF AND THAT SOLVED THAT! HAHAHAHAH I DONT WEAR A RAINBOW BUT IM CONSIDERING!~:roflmao:
     
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    Dealing with the anti-gays and holier-than-thou types
     
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    The idea of being looked at differently merely because of my sexuality. I want to be treated the same. I don't want to be mistreated, and I don't want to be coddled or for people to kiss my ass.

    I'm just me, and i'd prefer it to stay that way.

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    Those too. They are absolutely insufferable. I know how to counter each one of their points, but they don't listen. They are some of the most dishonest people you'd ever speak to. They are absolutely brainwashed.
     
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    I'm not proud of being gay.
     
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    To me, it's not really about being prideful, but about owning up to what and who you are. You may not need to feel pride, but shame definitely should not be in it's place. I'm not saying you feel shameful, i'm just stating in general.
     
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    When people assume I'm straight and ask me out and I don't know what to say because I don't want to hurt their feelings in any way.
     
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    the constant coming out to people is a pain in the arse
     
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    living in a country that is totally not acceptable of anything that has to do with the lgbtq community, and being in fear that if you came out someone would attack you or kill you
     
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    When you kneel to your boyfriend to propose, your boyfriend would start unzipping his pants :laugh:
     
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    This line:

    "Hey, are you still gay?"
    :bang:
     
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    pressure from family and close friends, always.
     
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    Internalized homophobia/shame, essentially.
     
    #52 ellyy, Apr 21, 2016
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    This this.
     
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    People thinking that lesbians like every female friend, just because I'm gay doesn't mean I'm attracted to every female (or other lesbian) that I meet
     
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    Switch lesbians for gays and female for male and yep, that's exactly my problem.
     
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    for me the hardest part is having a crush on a guy (especially a friend) and wanting it to happen so bad and realising its not ever gonna work.
     
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    The two things I dislike:

    1. loneliness

    2. Having crushes on guys who are more than likely not gay...sigh.
     
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    It's even harder when some of them are your family members. And you want to be respectful of them and of course you love them, but you can't help but to distance yourself from them.
     
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    The constant expectation that you will be charming and witty and beautiful. I'm sorry. Some days I just don't dress all that well. The expectation that you're always going to sparkle is just exhausting...
     
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    Yup, I know exactly what you mean. I was always withdrawn from family, and this issue makes me withdraw even more.
     
    #60 Atreyo, Apr 24, 2016
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