I probably would have popped the bitch in the throat. But, I personally let anger make my quick decisions, which isn't very smart. You should go the legal route. Sue the motherfucker. or break her emotionally with verbal attacks on the things she is most insecure about.
Hmm. Have someone check the link if you don't feel up to it. I mean if the link is abusive this is once again evidence that you can use against her so I sure hope you didn't delete the email.
If you're friends are treating you like that and aren't helping you then they're not truly your friends