When do you feel most lonely?

When I'm hurting and I realize there's no one there to support me...

 

When I wake up from some beautiful dream and reality kicks in, breaking all illusions.
And when I see a couple. It sucks to be single.
Why do we fall for straight guys?

 

when i'm with a group of friends and they are all talking happily, but i am left to think of what to say, and it kind of spirals downward

 

When I am going to bed.

 

When I'm trying to sleep and realize that pretty much every member of my family is going to die long before me.
That makes me feel a bit lonely.

Also hugs to everyone in this thread. (*hug*)

 

Ironically, when I am surrounded by people. In particular when there is a strong emphasis on socializing.

The only specific occasion when I can pretty much guarantee I'll feel lonely is Christmas; as the day wears on. 'The Little Christmas Cry' has pretty much become a yearly tradition by now lol. It only gets really bad if I'm in the company of a group (see above).

^Seconded. (*hug*)

 

I feel you. (*hug*)
I try to distance myself from a lot of guys I know for this exact reason.

 

Almost every day.

 

When I see a group of friends or a couple.

 

I feel alone.... when im in my room probably

 

Its pretty much a guarantee that i feel lonely. it gets old really fast.

 

Always.

 

when I see cute couples and I think: I want that too. Or before I go to sleep.

 

When my best friend/crush is out partying without me, or worst when she hangs out with her ex-bff that still has no idea that she was downgraded to the no longer bff status :dry:

 

Every day I feel alone, I live on my own , no parents around , and christmas is the worse..

 

I hate nights. I hate the wrong person in bed beside me.
In a house full of people and I'm so alone

 

When I start realizing how alone I actually am. Most of the time, I'm in my head and day dreaming, which honestly, creates a lot of "lost time" with people. I know for a fact that this is bad for me, but it's the only way I can cope, so that I don't go overboard with emotions. I know it would be so different if the people who I feel should care for me, would actually care for me, but as we all know, that's not reality and it probably will never be. So, I make sure I'm pre-occupied and day dreaming. The downfall to that, is waking up from it all and remembering the cold truth.

 

Usually, it's the worst at night.

 

It can strike at pretty random times. It's kind of odd for me, though, because when I get this crushing loneliness, the craving to have a close relationship comes with it, but I have a fear of getting extremely close with people at the same time. Side effects of falling in love with someone straight, I guess.

 

Never, and always.