Alright, it's time for that age-old question that gay men are regularly bludgeoned with. Top, or bottom? I decided that it's time, once and full all, to set up a poll and get some stats.
I'm 100% bottom, I don't know why a lot of Gay men are embarrassed to admit it...The only time I top, is when the guy is shorter than me...
It's a bit to late to edit my post and elaborate on what I meant when I said on the poll options that "Virgins select "Don't Know." I meant that if you don't participate in anal sex because you're a virgin, who also happens to not know their preference of top or bottom, then select the "I don't know" option. I feel the need to elaborate a bit, because there are people who've never had sex that know what their preference would be.
Yeah, now I can select what I wanted to select, and that is versatile. :icon_bigg I have no idea whether Kabuki and I will be close to 50/50 though, but I know I am versatile. =)
Definitely versatile but with a definite and significant preference, this poll should have more options
I used to think I was more top than anything, I guess I was very wrong. :lol: Right now, I'm versatile and I'm sure it'll be almost a 50/50 between me and Quem. I guess that when you find the special someone, you're willing to try many things. I know that was my case.
I can be top, I can be bottom or I can live without any anal sex... whatever makes my would be partner happy. There are more to relationships than sex... how much longest intercourse/orgasm takes? 20 mins? This is very very tiny part of a life time.
Like others have mentioned I'm also versatile but I have a clear preference. Also this might be a bit off topic but aren't the bottom and top roles also used outside of the context of anal sex? Merely in terms of who's being penetrated and who's doing the penetrating (oral sex for example). I mean I know it usually refers to anal sex but I don't think it refers to that exclusively.
Yeah I voted for versatile too but I guess it depends since I like to top more when the guy is bigger/taller than me, lol.
You can be a virgin and not select don't know. I know what I want and it's definitely not something up my ass. I like the idea of pounding someone else with my long ass plastic dick. (Sorry for the details.)
Versatile Top- Means i top most of the time but once and a while i can bottom. Still virgin tho ^^^ dont steal my virgin blood ningyo
Both. Took me quite a while to get comfortable with the idea of bottoming because, well, I was raped when I was 9, but eventually I came around and I'm glad I did.
versatile - I'm willing to give what I get, mutual :icon_wink anal virgin (not including the 9 inch dildo I wore out) have also never had anal sex with a girl either (bisexual) :icon_redf I'm a large guy, I was gifted so there's a size issue. :eek: Also, the act itself is so intimate, and I believe I'd need a partner I was completely comfortable with, and in a relationship.
Ok, I was about to freak out for a second, but I see that others already did that about the poll options. Sooo, virgin and versatile. I know and noone can tell me otherwise. But I would be fine being only one in a relationship. There's no need to argue because I'm fine either way, and do not "require" both.
Versatile but actually enjoy being a bottom alot more but still like topping when im in the mood :icon_bigg