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Do you find yourself attractive?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by The Virgo, Dec 29, 2014.

  1. QueerTransEnby

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    Ugly as heck. :frowning2: I think I scare children some times.
     
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    Yes, I just don't think it translates well to pictures at all; often enough, if I show someone a pic of me, they seem to take my dislike of myself in the pic as me thinking I'm just ugly in general, when that isn't it.

    So, irl/in person/whatever? Yes I feel I'm attractive(even if nowhere near a 10).

    In a picture? Heck to the no; as I made mention of before, I'd rather have all my pictures used to make a bonfire.

    ...but you aren't ugly. :-\
     
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    I make a very attractive woman... which doesn't help me much :bang:
    I'm not very attractive as a guy.
     
  4. Kidd

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    I think I'm pretty attractive, yeah. I was asked to do porn professionally once, right after I moved to the city. And also money for sex, I was oddly flattered actually. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Hell no. I have awful self-esteem
     
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    No but i have recently realized that slimming down my face (and overall but mainly face) would get me near attractive so im going to try for that, after the pack of cookies is gone from my kitchen
     
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    It depends entirely on what I look like on a particular day. Some days I wake up puffy faced and feel I need a ton of make-up. Other days I wake up and my skin looks dewy and fresh - those are the days I feel I look attractive.

    As an unofficial resolution for the New Year, I am trying to look upon myself with a more positive light. Every day I look in the mirror and try to find something positive to say about myself.

    I'm not particularly fit or even remotely in shape, but my SO absolutely loves my curves and she makes me feel beautiful every day.
     
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    Ive had body image issues my whole life, so no. But I can see in the mirror Im not too bad. I just need to lose the extra pounds.
     
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    Like some other people here, I'd say I wouldn't be attracted to myself if I met me, but I know that others might be attracted to me.

    And I guess that's the trick - not thinking yourself attractive doesn't make you unattractive to everyone else in the world. (But you do have to actually try!)
     
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    No but I consider myself average looking and im happy with that.
     
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    Debatable. But, mostly, I don't.
     
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    Of course. My pale, deathly, heavenly complexion is a gift from god that upon being seen, drives people into the deepest pits of hell.
     
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    No, I honestly think I'm like the ugliest guy out there.
     
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    Strangely I do find myself attractive. Seriously thought I was tooo narcissistic at that point *yikes...I've been working out more and I can't help admiring my physique's progress. Love to flex and have fun with myself. Makes me feel better the days I feel like crap.

    ---------- Post added 10th Jan 2015 at 07:11 PM ----------

    That is so poetically attractive, I'm sure you're a beautiful:icon_wink person
     
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    I feel like I have some attractive features but then I look at myself in the mirror the wrong way and they pass. lol
     
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    Uhm im a goddess duh!!:rolle:
     
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    I find myself incredibly attractive much like a male model. Oh yeeah shake it boy. I rated myself the most sexy in high school even.
     
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    By society's standards I'm fairly attractive.

    By my partners standards... Yes I'm beautiful.

    By my standards: for the most part. Except when I break out... And yes I wish I had bigger boobs but generally... I have blue eyes and hair just below the shoulders... Am tall and thin... I've been told I should be a model by many people but everyone has their insecurities you know? And I don't want my career to be based on something as fleeting as looks.

    Im a pear shape so everyone at work calls me "Juicy Booty" :lol: