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Signs you were gay as a kid?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Burnedcloset, Nov 5, 2014.

  1. Plattyrex

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    I got the girl's toy at McDonalds. I also played with My Little Pony toys before it was cool. And I sounded like a girl and I still do when I talk:frowning2:.
     
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    Nothing to be ashamed of Plattyrex! I am a more masculine female, and have been since I was little (also got the boy's toys.) It's just society that acts like there's anything wrong with those things. If someone can't handle it, too bad for them because then they're just missing out.(*hug*)
     
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    Me and a couple o male friends would hold each other's penis or spoon each other sexually. I once tried a BJ on my friend. This was around 10yrs old.
     
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    Thank you:slight_smile:.
     
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    I wanted to see two guys kiss on the real world but my mom wouldn't allow me.
    Wore cupcake frosting as nail polish
    Tried on heels
    I would scream like a girl
    Kissed my male cousin and my mom scolded me in front of him
    Jealous that another boy was talking to my crush
    Mostly had female friends
    I was more interested in looking at the guy's butt while watching sex scenes
    Tried to dance like a girl
     
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    Making up crushes on guys that all my girl friends said they liked

    Giving dolls my relatives gave me to my dog

    Boys toy with my happy meal, please

    Those last 2 are more about gender roles I think, though. I was very boyish as a kid.
     
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    No signs at all. It was probably because I was in my imagination too much as a kid. Maybe the fact all my heroes made me a bit dreamy and all of them were glorious and muscular knights.
     
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    I would play with my cousin's My Little Pony toys.
    I would also love to make jewelry such as necklaces and bracelets out of my mom's beads.
     
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    Not gay here, but mine was my state of mind on the matter really.
    I always thought of love as just love between two people.
    Even at age five.
    Though that could just be me being extremely open minded
     
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    Wore my moms dresses and high-heel shoes... always around her when she made dresses and when she was baking. Listening to copious amounts of ABBA and other similar music genres. Having a crush on the jocks in school.
     
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    Being 7 or 8 and 'practicing' kissing with my female friends, then realizing that it totally wasn't just practice for me XD
     
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    When I was a kid, my favorite planet was always Uranus...

    Seriously, though I'm not actually gay (I am closer to bisexual), there were signs that I was the more effeminate one between me and my twin brother. There are pictures of him playing in the mud with his toy trucks and pictures of me with a flower in my hair--things like that. Going back, there was evidence that I would always be the "softer" one, and perhaps that predicted my lack of heterosexuality.
     
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    I kept thinking this girl in elementary had 'pretty hair'. I kept obsessing over it (as well as the girl) to the point that my dear mother probably knew I was a raging lesbo before I did.
     
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    I also loved to make necklaces and bracelets out of beads and I remember I used to play with my friend's barbie-like things. Like a spinoff. (Since my voice is so feminine my friend had me talk as the girls and she would talk as the guys lol.)

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    Ahh yes I would always feel awkward asking my mom to get me the girls toys when I got McDonalds.
     
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    I had action men but would always play with my sisters barbies just so I could play with their hair. She had bratz dolls with like salons and a house which I loved as well :lol:
    I knew I was gay since I was like 8 so after that I tried make sure that I didn't give away any signs.
     
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    All the other kids were making their Ken and Barbie dolls kiss.

    I made two Barbies kiss.

    Also, I was very interested in girls from a young age, about as much as I was in guys.
    I remember a story my mum told me about when we were out at a restaurant when I was super young, and this pretty girl with D cups went by. I was watching her with eyes the size of dinner plates, and as soon as she was out of earshot I just turned to mom and went "Big Bas! Big Bas!"
    Ba was my word for boobs LOL.

    Other than that, not many signs.
     
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    I didn't really show any signs exactly - I've always been a typical boyish boy, into cars, sports and fighting and stuff, but from the age of about 8 or 9, I found myself fancying boys I saw on TV or in bands etc.
    I'd always watch their shows, get the band posters, just to look at them haha!
    Obviously I never admitted to anyone, but in my mind and to myself, I'd be like "I love him" lol!
     
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    Everyone else seemed to know, before I did.
     
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    When I was in kindergarten, I loved to play with a toy kitchen stove they had over there. It was pink and all... but probably I was just imitating my mother (my father was pretty much absent when I was little, and as a grown-up I hate cooking haha)

    Other than that I wasn't really interested in other boys until I was 11 or 12.
     
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    I sung and danced a little too much as a kid. I remember singing Gwen Stefani's Rich Girl when I was young. That is all I think was gender bending of me as a kid because boys never really do sing like I do. In so many places I would sing and dance. One of the few traits that stayed with me. I sing and dance all the time today, but now it includes way more lip syncing.
     
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