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Signs you were gay as a kid?

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  1. kool aid

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    I wore my mum's shoes
    I had an interest in my sister's bratz dolls
    I loved high school musical and watched every chash in edition the released and it's sequels
    I would rather hang out with girls than boys
    I didn't wear particularly feminine clothes but i certainly didn't have a masculine style
     
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    I loved to watch Gilmore girls. :lol:
     
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    Nothing exceptionally obvious for me, but I did prefer to hang around with girls than other guys. I never joined in football games in the school playground, preferring instead to identify different types of insects. But that's not necessarily gay, it's just awesome.

    I did something very similar, but with my sister's dolls dolls. I'd pull off their heads and limbs and sometimes I'd even bite them. I was a very strange kid.
     
  4. Besides playing with LEGO blocks instead of barbie dolls, I remember coming home from my first dancing lesson when I was about 9 and only talking about a girl when my parents asked me whether I liked the dancing lesson or not. The conversation went like this:

    'How was your dancing lesson?'
    'There was this girl, and if I were a boy, man I'd know it.'
    'Okay, but what about the dances?'
    'She was a pretty good dancer too.'

    I even remember thinking 'maybe I should say something about the dancing lesson to make sure my parents don't think I'm gay because I'M NOT'.
     
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    I should have clarified :lol:. I never bought or was given Barbies as presents; the ones that I used to mutilate were some spare once we had from my sister that got dirty or were useless.

    As for real traits that were signs that I was gay, well, I once tried on my mom's heels. I could not get how a foot could actually fit in the end part of the shoe in the pointy part :lol:.

    Also, I was sensitive growing up and somewhat emotional to others' feelings. However, I'm not sure if that was being gay or something else. I was labeled in elementary school as "Gifted/Talented" and looking at some of the traits of such people, being "emotionally sensitive" is a trait of such persons.
     
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    Barbies, high voice, most friends were girls, and damn I liked guys!
     
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    Well, I used to walk around the house in my mum's clothes when I was a kid, and I hung around girls more than boys up until I was about 14. That's about it, really.

    I guess the biggest sign was, when I was in high school, I had a fricken huge crush on one of the other guys in my class.

    Which was awkward as SHIT seeing as he was my best guy friend. Yeah, I had a weird time in school, and I don't wanna relive it. *shudders*
     
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    Let's see:

    Put on my mom's lipstick.
    More girl friends than guy friends.
    Never really into contact sports.
    Enjoyed looking up "stuff" on the family computer

    Uh...yep
     
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    It finally dawned on me yesterday that Ive been saying that Im happily single since I was a senior in high school. Maybe that was a sign that I was asexual.
     
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    I really wanted Kim Possible and Shego to get together. I mean Kim and Ron were cute, but I had such a massive crush on Shego; it was ridiculous. Also, when High School Musical first showed and all my friends were losing their shit over Zach Efron I just wanted to talk about Gabriella.
     
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    - Wanting marry my dad's friend's girlfriend (I only met her once because they didn't date very long)
    - kissing Cinderella in books and DVD cases.
     
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    when i was in 4th grade i developed REALLY strong feelings for my now girlfriend. I would have fantasies of me being a boy and saving the girl then having a kiss. And for the majority of my life i was scared of girls and my only friends were boys.
     
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    I don't think there were any. I was a pretty normal boy. That is one of the reasons it took so long to figure myself out.
     
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    I would make my two female Barbies be moms and they would have child , and sometimes one barbie would touch the others breasts then they would have sex when the baby was asleep . Deep down I felt it was right but I knew everyone else thought it was wrong , plus they would laugh at me .
     
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    Umm, well I had it rough because girls bullied me and I always wanted to hang out with the guys, but they decided never to teach me sports because "girls weren't athletic".
    Granted, I had been born with "pigeon feet" so I couldn't run most of my life, but I still wanted to play games. Also, I was afraid of barbies??? I made the two boy barbies date each other. Not sure if that's a sign or not, since the only real signs were my feelings.
    Oh, and I remember when I was like four or five I tried peeing standing up just like daddy... and I could with no issues. ^_^
     
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    Lol Yes! I also wanted Shego and Kim to get together :grin:
     
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    I would cry everytime telling my mum to make me her son. My mum said, I was 5 yrs old when I asked her to make me boy.
     
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    Never really liked dolls, didn't know what to do with them. Preferred either gender neutral toys like stuffed animals and board games or boyish stuff like cars and trains. I liked watching girls but not joining in with the girly stuff they were doing.

    Oh and there's also the fact I had my first crush on a girl, at the age of 6, and would whisper little compliments in her ear and imagine kissing her. That might have been a slight clue :lol:
     
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    I act like a boy
    and sit like one too
    Hate pink
    Only interested in boy's toys and don't play dress up or barbie
    I hate dresses and skirts
    I cross dress on online games like habbo lol
     
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    Hmm nothing stereotypical except I guess I did go through a tomboy phase as a young kid but that was actually just a "fashion phase" haha. So I guess the most obvious indicator was that I only crushed on girls? I always had posters of female singers/actresses on my wall which isn't that strange for a little girl except I would stare at them kind of dreamy eyed haha! I still remember when I was maybe 7 or 8 and I paused the TV cause this good looking girl was on it and I kissed the screen xD I guess that was the first clue