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The "do I pass" thread

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Just Jess, Apr 16, 2014.

  1. Alisa Arwen

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    Hehe you look great anyway :slight_smile: I hope I could look that good if I ever decided to try.
     
  2. NekoAlex

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    Lazuri, I think you pass 100% and you are beautiful :slight_smile:
     
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    OK, I'm going to be brave and join in with the pretty people. I'm a long way from needing to "pass", still coming to terms with my identity, then there's all the coming out... but I might as well learn some tips now. What do you think of my latest pictures? Anything you think I should improve on?

    http://emptyclosets.com/forum/members/55736-albums6925.html

    preview attached
     

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    Hey :slight_smile: I took a look at your album, and I gotta say, I love your dress sense :slight_smile: I would say you pass. I think maybe you could try some eye makeup (eyeliner/mascara), but other than that, you look fine :grin:
     
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    I'm actually 14. :slight_smile:
     
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    Yes, you do :slight_smile: (PS: Love the outfit)
     
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    Then not bad young man, not bad at all.
     
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    I'd say you pass, but if I were to comment on anything it'd be your eyebrows. They're a bit thick, but because they are a bit thick, I think they could be trimmed into a really good feminine curve, though trimming eyebrows can be tricky.

    That might just be me, though. I love a good curve on an eyebrow.

    I'd say you definitely pass, though, despite that.

    ---------- Post added 9th Jan 2015 at 11:33 PM ----------

    Thank you.

    Corsets, baby. I swear, I'll say that so much people will start calling me the "Crazy Corset Lady."
     
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    Actually you look fantastic, I can't tell if you're a guy looking like a girl or a girl looking like a guy.

    The only way anyone should be able to tell is voice tbh. Very androgynous.
     
  11. Acm

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    Actually Frostbite I think you look pretty masculine to me, you could definitely pass.
     
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    Funny, because years of vocal practice since before puberty left me with a wide range and a low-toned melodic speaking voice. Sometimes I have to try for a high voice. I only thought it was a fluke at the DMV when the guy behind the counter asked my mom "Which of these boys is [Brother's name]?" He then saw my paperwork and realized I was born a girl. Weirdest apology ever. :lol:
     
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    Thanks! I've gone from "eh I'll just wear whatever keeps me warm" to "OMG clothes are so fun!", glad to hear I'm not totally misguided in dress sense :grin:

    Gotta get my hands on some eyeliner, I've used a little mascara but obviously that's not enough. :slight_smile:

    Thanks for the advice! I've given them a little pluck just to thin them out - personally I'm not a fan of overly shaped eyebrows, just want to look feminine while also being as natural as possible. But I think thinning them worked wonders, I was passing to myself even with no makeup and my man-glasses on. :O
     
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    The only thing I can see in this photo is that the side of your hair is parted and your forehead shows a lot on that side, making your forehead look larger than it would if your hair covered more of it. Wow, that was a long run on sentence. But I hope you understand what I'm saying. :slight_smile:
     
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    Ughh it seems everyone passes but me....i know im just being a negative Nancy..all I care is if I pass to me and it just seems like why even bother...srry for all the negative energy
     
  17. Bonaparte

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    Maybe you just haven't found your style yet? Different clothing compliments different frames and people. I know if I wear certain styled clothing I don't pass, even if the fit is well, but if I wear another I pass constantly for the right gender in public. It can really be as simple as a shirt pattern. I would just try on things you would have never considered before, and see how it works for you.

    For example, once I tried on knitted sweater (which on the rack looked horrible), but it's a shirt that looks well with my body type and allows me to pass because it's slim, the pattern is distracting, and thick.
     
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    Thx Bonaparte...im just in the dumps today I guess and living with my great uncle does not help at all....he is old school asshole type that I cant even try to come out to..he is a good guy and all its just he would definitely not be cool with it though I'm just trying to be cool with him and not start drama..
     
  19. Mischief

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    Damn, you pass really well. I look like a freakin baby compared to you xD
     
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