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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by MerBear, Sep 23, 2013.

  1. MerBear

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    liked someone outside of your race?

    You see, I think,.,...i'm starting to like this girl who is African american and i usually not attracted to black girls but i think, maybe ..that's changed
     
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    I think most people have been attracted to others outside their race. If not, one's upbringing and who they've interacted with, as well as media representation of beauty, may be the 'cause' for why they haven't been attracted to others outside of their race... as well as innate preference, maybe? To answer your question, yes, I have liked multiple people of any race. It's not a big deal for me, so long as they share similar or nonconflicting views on certain important issues. Culture can potentially play a large part in shaping those.
     
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    I haven't, but only because the area I live in isn't multicultural. I'm sure I will some day :slight_smile:
     
  4. MerBear

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    I don't have a problem with it. it's just that, im not use to liking girls that are black, i usually like either girls who are white or Hispanic
     
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    Yes absolutely! It's completely normal, we are all of the same species after all and - ignoring homosexuality - the evolutionary purpose of attraction is to find a suitable mate. Interracial mates are just as suitable, if not more so, in terms of the propagation of the species.
     
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    Not yet.

    I'm attracted to a guy's personality. Sure, I can think a guy's cute/sexy, but I'm only truely attacted to them because of their personality
     
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    Yeah, that's why ..i'm attracted to her, because of her personality. but its just, im not use to liking black girls. thats all
     
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    I get what your saying I'm white with a lot of cherokee and choctaw heritage. People usually find other people who look similar to themselves attractive. So typically I find whites and hispanics attractive but not blacks (mostly in their typical facial features). That being said there is no one trait that 100% of people within any ethnic group share because we are all individuals. Throughout the years I have found a large number of blacks that I thought were attractive and have been with a handful of black guys.
     
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    Yes I have. Multiple times. Race doesn't mean anything to me.
     
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    yeah, i like her personality, it's nice
     
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    If your family is from Latin America, like mine, you're probably mixed one way or another, so yes. I've had crushes and have fallen for people from various ethnic backgrounds.
     
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    mixed race is fairly common where i have lived my closest friend is ashen. lost my cherry to a half cast guy who was bi sexual. Dont have any preference really
     
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    My first love was biracial. She had such pretty features. :slight_smile:
     
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    Can't say I have, nor do I think I ever will.
    I'm just attracted to other white dudes.
     
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    i have thought biracial girls are hot but thats it as there straight, i am sure i would fancy or date a girl who wasnt white but the lesbians i know all white
     
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    In the past four years, I've seriously crushed on or fallen in love withhhhh: 5 white guys, 1 Hispanic guy, 2 Asian guys, and 2 Black guys. So, 8 out of 10 of those were outside my race.
     
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    I do like some Latino guys, but that's about it. I'm mostly only into white guys.
     
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    Didn't I make a thread like this one time and it got really bad really fast?

    I've had attractions to other races before, but I tend to stick with my race for reasons I don't quite know.
     
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    It only gets bad when people start unnecessarily saying disparaging things about races they don't prefer.
     
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    Yes I have, many people in fact. I find most things that are attractive is personality so race doesn't play a role. Anyone can be hot, no matter the race :grin: