I'm a 15 year old guy, and have recently realized I was bisexual. I've decided I'd like to try out a new form of self-pleasure, and I'd love some ideas and popular methods of anal stimulation...now... I'm not out to my parents yet, and I don't have money to buy official lube or dildos or things... so any ideas as to what I might be able to "use"? Haha thanks
Don't use anything that's not meant to be put up there (Deodorant cans, pens, markers, vegetables...) 'cause they can easily get stuck up in there and lost, and then you'd have to go to the hospital to get it removed, which isn't worth the risk, or worth the small amount of time of fun at all. You can use your fingers, and make sure the nails are trimmed, so that you reduce the risk of cutting yourself up down there. I'm sure others can pitch in with more nitty-gritty stuff, heh.
If you don't have a specially designed toy then you have to stick to your fingers, as Luthan said. However the good news is your fingers can be pretty good! If you don't have access to lube, then for fingering purposes you're completely fine using body lotion or vaseline or something like that, or even just water while you are in the shower (it isn't very practical anywhere else as it will dry too quickly). Neither are suitable for toys or actual sex because oils in lotions and vaseline break down the material dildos and condoms are made of, and water is just impractical, but it is fine for fingering. Here is what I posted in a thread a couple of weeks ago when someone was asking about stimulating their prostate when they are fingering themselves: Original thread
^ oh Ridiculous. :dead: Yes, fingers are great, I do it all the time. I don't have any toys, and fingers feel really good.
I used the handle of a very large paint brush, well into my 20s. Even bought a couple just for that purpose lol! Worked extremely well, didn't arouse suspicion and was perfectly safe due to the natural "flaring" and smooth finish.
looks like fingers are a popular option I would make sure you nails are trimmed and rounded off . lotion is fine to use I personally wouldn't use baby oil to oily for me . I found the middle finger best to use dont rush take your time . hope this helps .
Well, it's a good step before fisting- you know, the final moment before you shove the mortar up your ass and realize no fist on Earth's equal to a slab of rock and if you're this crazy, then no mortal appendage will be too much.
I appreciate I am new here, but any tips on this? I can get it to feel good through playing with my fingers, but I nearly always get knackered when it is building and I feel like I could possibly orgasm. Is there a fast-track route?
Have tried anal beads but still never been able to orgasm. I have found my attempts backdoors to be 'messy' shall we say, sometimes too.
I'm locking this thread because it's actually really old, and I'm sure the OP has his answers by now. If anyone has any questions or concerns about masturbation - feel free to start a new thread in the Physical and Sexual Advice sub-forum.