How's your gaydar?

lol Metrosexuals.

I fall under the category of "Manly" Bisexual man xD I don't find the whole flamboyance thing attractive.

 

Mine is okay I guess. I've had more 'hits' than 'misses' but annoyingly (sorry, but it is) I've had more luck with gay men than lesbians. It's really frustrating because I can get my gay friends interested in someone (eg. "hey, I think he's gay, go say hi" and I've been right) but finding myself a girlfriend seems impossible!

 

I don't think such things as "gaydars" exist.

 

I can only tell they are gay if it is pretty obvious, other than that not great at all

 

Theres judying people using sterotypes which I don't count as gayda but assumtions but than theres looking at things like mannerisms which in women would be walking with hands in pockets , the way the sit , not talking about men and avoiding talking about them , keeping longer eye contact , going bright red and embarrassed around a girl they like ect which can indicate sexuality

 

Im young. My gaydar is existent and being modified every moment. Right now, it can only sniff out stereotypical gays (not every guy who does dance and likes Glee) and those a bit under it.

 

That's basically everyone. It won't evolve much past that unfortunately. Trust me :c

 

Why the fuck does that matter and how does that contribute at all to discussion about gaydars?

 

It matters because this is a forum for sharing opinions and it's relevant because flamboyant men are more easy to detect...

 

I gaydar has always been terrible. Turns out my roommate in college was gay and hot for me... Missed that. My best friend at my first job.. gay and hot for me.. missed that..

heck, I just found out that basically every single friend I had in high school and college has since come out.. No clue..

truly pathetic...

 

My gaydar has spotty reception.

 

Where's the Electrician, I need it mended Lol Oh I think that Electrician is Gay, maybe it's getting better

 

mine needs couple tweeks lol

 

Well.. I'd have to ask my friend if he is gay to know if my gaydar works haha :roflmao:

 

The only gay people I know of, are the ones who have come out. I don't know if I'm the only gay around my circle of friends, or anyone else at school, but I'm not picking up anything.

It may not've been activated to begin with, or I may not have met someone yet, besides the obvious ones.

 

Ive lost the instruction manual

 

good urs?

 

So far all the girls I thought were bi or lesbian were right. Guys not so much

 

I imagine that there are several hundred gay people around where I live and I've never caught them on my radar. But, there are a certain few that are different. They don't have to act gay at all. I'm trying to say this with the straightest face, but I think for me it requires eye contact. I'm trying to avoid the cliché window to the soul thing, though I do believe it. But sometimes I can just look into a guys eyes for only a fraction of a second and I know. Maybe its just the way he looks back into mine, maybe I'm a soul reader ; ) If I had to guess there has been some body language that was imperceptible to me but not my subconscious. I think when you truly want someone to know, deep down, you'll find a way to let them. Which is scary for me to think about because I wonder how many people have discovered me the same way.