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When did you guys found out you were LGBT?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by thatoneguy81, Jul 25, 2013.

  1. Spatula

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    Early 20s.
     
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    When I was around 13. Up until then I just liked girls...
     
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    I knew when I was really young, but then I went through so much denial, I sorta forgot until much later. Forgot is the wrong word. I managed to convince myself I was straight until three or so years ago.
     
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    I started questioning when I was 13 years old and realized I'm attracted to girls at age 16
     
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    I found out when I was 11
     
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    I've Always known. Since as far back as I remember but it took me 23yrs to come out. Best decision ever
     
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    I've kind of always known. Ever since I was 5 I can remember that I wasn't like everyone else. But I didn't really realize it until I was around 15, and din't come to terms with it until 1-1.5 years ago approx.
     
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    I really liked the local gay dude xD
     
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    Mine started during when i hit puberty, i thought of girls all the time, but everytime i thought of having sex with a woman i'd always think of penises, but i moved them out of they way, but they'd keep returning. It was latent then. I had my first relationship back when i was 13 and i was seeing a nice girl, we shared a lot in common, but something wasn't right. I kissed her and it felt tingily but i wasn't into the relationship at all, barley texted her. Then when i hit the early 15 i went through a two week phase where all i thought about was giving oral, and tred to perform auto fellatio. When march rolled around, i pushed the thoughts back into the back of the brain. When i started playing sly cooper i had a weird thought and i always fantasized about sucking him. Than i was being nice to a friend and she told me i wasn't gay as to why i wasn't being mean to her. Than i realized, i had been latent about my gay side, i actually didn't realize i had liked guys until this year more than girls. I'd always read books with a male protaganist, played video games with a male lead, and always watched movies with a male role.

    Earlier clues i had contemplated
    1. I always shied away at guys because i was absolutely repulsed
    2. Always watching porn, i'd look at exclusively lesbians
    3. Lesbian porn they'd always have to had dildos
    4. Shemale
    5. I never fully orgasmed at lesbian porn
    6. Latent thoughts about guys at an early age.
    Or i could be just homo flexible as to the fact that i wasn't really involoved with girls romanticaly or i just need to ride this out.
     
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    Thinking back. I think I first figured that I wasn't attracted to women when I was about 7ish. I didn't figure out I was gay until I was about 10, and I didn't accept it until I was 15ish.
     
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    I know I like girls since I was young but it was until recently that I realized and noticed that I am gay.
     
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    Um, I wanna say 11-12 years old, I knew something was up; when I would get turned on, I'd think of guys to try and alm me down, but that didn't work obviously :lol: After that, I went through Denial, Anger, etc and finally accepted myself at 15. Didn't tell anyone until I was 17 though.
     
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    26. but looking back if my life hadn't had been impacted by certain early negative effects, I probably would have known by 17-19
     
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    I started feeling attracted to men when I was 11, but I didn't realize that what I was feeling was sexual attraction or that it made me gay at the time. I figured all of that out when I was 14.
     
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    I've always had some kind of attraction towards guys. I didn't notice it until I was 14 (last year). At that point I convinced myself I was bi. Then, literally in the last weeks of 9th grade, one day I'm like, "I think I'm actually gay... oh god..." Now I've accepted myself, I'm just not sure if others will.
     
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    The first time i realized i liked the same sex was around age 6 but i liked boys too so that was confusing, i found them good looking as well...even to this day but never in a sexual or romantic way like how i feel about women.
     
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    Around 7th or 8th grade (12 or 13 years old). I think besides news figures, there was this one kid in our grade who was pretty flamboyant that other kids ridiculed (he even had a promise ring from an older boyfriend, who I now think was a gross pedophile!). Even though I was best friends with a guy who came out in college. I was pretty oblivious and sheltered, even when he used to do crochet in elementary school, lol. But, he moved far away in middle school, so I had no one close when I was starting to understand myself.
     
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    I was always a loner and always knew I was different. When my brothers and I were little (I'm a middle child), they liked to rough-house and play in the dirt. I stayed indoors and read books. I also had an Easy Bake oven!

    I lived in a small town in the south and I, quite literally, didn't know what "gay" was. It wasn't until I was 19 that I figured things out. It had a lot to do with watching the movie Making Love.

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    Hmmmm, I knew I was a bit different since 10 years old, but I realised and accepted myself at around 13 yo.
     
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    KhanSaheb: are you an Indian-American? As a young kid, I saw some movie (not sure if it was Mississippi Masala) where one of the male characters (I think Indian) was in love with a white guy. It was a very subtle scene which only showed the white guy kissing/biting the other guy's ear and pulling him into some shadows. I never really thought about it until looking back in college to see whether I had any knowledge about gays before I was a teenager. Does this scene ring a bell?