What do You want from a Relationship?

Someone who's a best friend and a boyfriend at the same time

and eventually a husband maybe

 

I did.

 

Someone who understands me ..... oh god

 

friendship
commitment
an understanding

 

Love and emotions. Being yourself and having fun. Having somebody to be there for you and you to be there for them.
In the end of the day it's all about being happy, you know?

 

I chose the love and emotions option. Those two listed are more important to me in a relationship than the others.

 

I’ve been thinking about this… even though I’m in a relationship now, I guess that if it’s something for 2 months or so, then sex it is. But even in current relationship I want respect above all others. Love fades away, sex gets boring and for me those are not the very best foundations of the relationship.
I’m the only one who said “The belongings of the partner (money etc)” but I didn’t mean that I want just the money. For example now I’m pushing my bf to work more, to study better, because if we are to have a family in the future, we both should have proper jobs to raise children. I don’t want to have children with someone who is a waiter or a public teacher etc. And if we are not gonna work out as a couple, then I’ll be looking for someone who wants something in this life, who is constantly doing everything to achieve one’s dreams.

 

The love and emotions, the rest will come in time, if it is truly meant to be.

 

I could go my whole life without being sexual with someone if that meant having them show me they love me in different ways. Kissing, cuddling, random acts of romance, etc etc. So definitely the emotions.

 

I'm happy where I am with my trusted best friend. He is gay and already taken. I'm fine with that and my love for him drives me to keep him in this relationship. For as long as he is happy, I will be happy.

Besides, all I need is someone to talk to no matter what happened, knowing that they will always be there. Someone who I know trusts me back. We share our thought and feelings and help each other through hard times.

We already have what matters, even if people don't think of it as such because it is so platonic.

 

Nothing.

I don't want a relationship.

 

Love, I've continued living in the hopes that one day I'll find someone who will give me a reason to live. It really sucks being alone. ='(

 

Love and emotions ;3

 

I mostly just want someone who likes me enough to want to be around me, and someone that I feel similarly about. I want someone who makes me want to be a good person, achieve my goals, and someone I can make feel similarly.

Basically he just has to think I'm groovy. I think it's the reciprocal emotional support and stability I crave from relationships. Sex, money, differing ideals and opinions, are all important yes, but I'd be more than willing to overlook or even eliminate some of them for a general sense of comfort and liking the person.