How old were you when you lost your virginity

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With those guidelines, it would have been 15 or 16.

 

Still a virgin, and if i do lose it, it has to be ABSOLUTELY SPECIAL

 

For me it wouldn´t make any difference since it all happened within two weeks (with the same guy... and I´m still with him).

 

Haven't yet, fooled around with a guy once but I guess that doesn't count. Hopefully soon!:icon_bigg

 

I am also one of these statistics-defying virgins, but that is nothing I lose sleep over

 

Oh, well thank you! Yes, she is a very sensitive persone and she was extremely hurt by me not contacting her afterwards. I guess I should have, but we ended up sleeping together again, which to was sooo stupid, and she thinks I'm this girl who just sleeps around and never calls back. For me it was just fun playing, and I thought it was the same for her, but then I heard she was hurt by the way I'd acted She is still very hurt, but we spent time at a party this weekend and it felt like she is gradually forgiving me.

I love your hair btw!

 

I was 17 & it was with an older guy 28 should have waited I know .

 

I think I'm just curious, honestly. I wouldn't be getting in a long-term relationship with a woman, but I think maybe like a one-night stand just to say I've done it would get the job done.

My boyfriend on the other hand, he's as gay as they come. Ever since he first got interested in sex, he's known he liked guys not girls.

 

I lost mine pretty young, at age 13, though it was with a girl, I was in the 7th grade. She and her family had moved here from Laos, and she was very, well, aggressive. As a Buddhist from an agricultural society, I think she saw it as normal to seek out a boyfriend and sex as soon as one was sexually mature. Looking back at those times we laid out a blanket in the forest, I am reminded of her lack of guilt, vs. my own feelings of being scared. We were always safe, though I'll have to say, I used to pretend I was with one of her brothers, and I felt like I was betraying us both.

I was 18 when I lost my virginity to a male in high-school, right around graduation, and almost by coincidence. A boy I had never really met, but had a crush on, came up and just started talking. We had nothing much in common, other than wanting to experiment, and soon parted as friends, no hard feelings, though it did make me enter a phase where I wondered: would I ever find anyone who was both physically attractive, and that I had broader things in common with?

Eventually, I did.

 

Does oral rape count?

 

I was about to say the same thing. If rape counts, then I lost it when I was 9.

 

19, like a month after my birthday. 18 would've sounded so much cooler...

Though I can also be happy to say I would've lost it sooner if I didn't turn down some offers that I really wouldnt've been happy with.

 

That's what I was wondering too. If so, 15 for me. If not, 17. I always went with NOT. I think it's okay to say you lost your virginity when you were an active consenting participant. Not when it was something done TO you against your will. That's the way I see it anyway.

 

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I would. Or at least, it feels that way.

Virginity means having sex. That's basically it, it doesn't include willing participants in the list, or at least, not that I know of.

 

Psychologically speaking, it's definitely different.. The feel of rape is a different experience from other sexual acts. But it is sexual. Losing virginity means losing your lack of sexual experience. It feels wrong and just screws you up for the rest of your life. But that's how the dictionary/street slang describe it.