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Facebook "interested in": The poll

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by LaurieAnderson, May 17, 2012.

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How do you list your "interested in" on facebook?

  1. I'm straight and I have my "interested in" filled out correctly

    1 vote(s)
    0.6%
  2. I'm straight and I do not have my "interested in" filled out

    2 vote(s)
    1.3%
  3. I am openly gay or bisexual and have my "interested in" filled out correctly

    47 vote(s)
    29.6%
  4. I am openly gay or bisexual and do not have my "interested in" filled out

    35 vote(s)
    22.0%
  5. I am a closeted gay or bisexual and have my "interested in" filled out incorrectly

    12 vote(s)
    7.5%
  6. I am a closeted gay or bisexual and do not have my "interested in" filled out

    55 vote(s)
    34.6%
  7. I do not have facebook

    7 vote(s)
    4.4%
  1. SkyHunter

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    I hate that too, it's not fair. I currently have it set to "women", because there are important people for me that still don't know I'm pan and I want to tell them personally, not via Facebook. When they know, even if it's incorrect, I'll check "men" too.

    PS: Has anyone tried to tell Facebook about this? We could probably change it if a lot of people go and tell them.
     
  2. JRNagoya

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    I'm finally out and open with FB showing my interest in men. And earlier today, I even changed my relationship status to reflect that I have a boyfriend. It's amazing how quickly things can change for the good once you reach a happy point in your life and you no longer fear what others would think.
     
  3. I don't have a Facebook, but if I did, I probably wouldn't show my "interested in" section. I also wouldn't show my "political views" or "religion" sections either, because if you knew me, you'd most likely already be aware of that information.
     
  4. Sayu

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    My case isn't in the options - I am a closeted gay or bisexual and I have my "interested in" filled out correctly :grin:

    Well, I don't know if it is correct, I'm still questioning, but I filled both men and women.

    And I have my mum in my friends. But I guess nobody cares what is written there, so I hope she doesn't too or maybe I secretly hope that she will find it out one day and ask me :grin:
     
  5. Deaf Not Blind

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    weird...i not ever fill mine out and been on since 2009, and was trying to tell myself i was a straight female (who just secretly had wet dreams of sex with women as a man). i wonder if anybody has noticed that?
     
  6. midwestgirl89

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    Sexual Orientation:
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    Some people
    I don't have my "interested in" section filled out. I also don't have my relationship status.
     
  7. Filip

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    Out to everyone
    Out, but leave it blank.

    My Facebook is more of a tool to keep tabs on friends than to really tell others about myself. So even though I'm out to pretty much everyone I have on there, and wouldn't care too much if the others found out... I just never really got around to update it. If anything, I'm gradually removing things instead of adding to it.
     
  8. Leif

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    At the moment I have two facebook profiles. One for my family and friends I'm not out to, and one with my proper name, sexuality and interests. I would prefer it if they had more options though. I feel like I'm leaving part of myself out just picking one or both.