Username: east coast kid Orientation: Homo.... I could never be in a relationship with a man but I've had sex with some Leaning: Women! When I first knew: When I was 5 I used to play games with my friends where I was a boy and bought flowers for all the girls Acceptance: Knew for sure I liked girls a lot when I was 12... and I freaked out. Came out to myself as bi at 15, possibly gay at 16 or 17. Positive I was gay at 18 but I had no idea what to do How LGBT I've gone: Sex with women and a gf :eusa_danc Porn leaning: Lesbian or straight but I skip certain scenes with straight sex Fantasy leaning: Girls, and sometimes I'm a guy in the scene Wet dream leaning: GIRLS! What I look for in a guy: Hmm.. I don't look for guys at all What I look for in a girl: Sense of humor, strength, not a girly girl What remains the same: Um.. not sure how to answer this xD
Username: Daisy1 Orientation: Questioning. Trying to figure out where I fit between bi and gay. Leaning: Women, definitely, but I am attracted to certain things about men. When I first knew: At a concert in 1999 I was completely entranced by these female dancers. I thought to myself "shoot! I hope I'm not a lesbian." I've had many similar since then. Acceptance: Still figuring things out, and I'm in a long-term relationship with a man, which makes things more difficult. I think I could accept being gay, but I dislike the ambiguity of being bisexual. It just seems so complicated. How LGBT I've gone: A couple of years ago, I had a long-term flirtation with another girl, but nothing came of it. More recently, I had an extended make-out session with a girl at a club. I was very drunk but enjoyed it nonetheless. I'm out to my best friend and several others know I'm questioning. Porn leaning: I'm picky. Plot is important, and I generally like guy/guy foreplay and fairly tame guy/girl. Lesbian porn always seems so contrived, but I find scenes with strap-ons hot. (Question: is that a bisexual thing?) Fantasy leaning: 90%+ women Dream leaning: 90%+ women What I look for in a guy: Smart, caring, and motivated. No vanity or cockiness. I've never been that into looks, but I suppose I prefer guys with dark hair who know how to dress themselves. Oh, and good manners. What I look for in a girl: In contrast, looks are much more important to me for women, and I like a bit of cockiness (it's sexy!) Athleticism is attractive, as is a bit of quirkiness/awkwardness (especially if she owns it). For some reason, I think it's adorable when pretty women dress badly (perhaps because it makes them less intimidating). Oh, and glasses. I love glasses. Physically, I like tall women with long hair. What remains the same: Brains, shared interests, a warm smile.
Username: Seeksanctuary. Orientation: Gay transguy. :] I'd like to add that I'm poly, but I don't know if that counts as an orientation. Leaning: ... Uhm, men, heh. I'm guy-only. When I first knew: I always knew, but I was raised in a religious and mostly sheltered environment. I just never had words for what I felt; all I had were stereotypes, so I thought my "feeling like a guy" thing was actually just being a lesbian. I know, it's stupid and horrible, but I knew NO different until about 7th grade. And around that time, I actually went from seriously thinking that to KNOWING it wasn't true but being in denial and WANTING it to be true. Because being a lesbian is simpler than being a gay FTM, or it was in my mind anyhow. I've always been poly, too. *shrugs* I just always liked having two partners. :| I didn't care to date around, I just always wanted two people to love, and that's about it. Acceptance: When I was 16, I finally realized I was FTM and worked towards accepting it. I still denied being gay, and still had trouble. I dated a few girls but felt nothing for them, so it never lasted. :[ But when I was about 19, eveything finally clicked. I came out, I got with my boyfriend and here I am. It took a lot of research and soulsearching to finally accept who and what I am. Lots of therapy. I never really questioned being poly, nor was I ever in denial over it, so I always accepted that part of myself. I did try to "go monogamous" for a few people, but it never worked out all that well because they always acted suspicious of me for absolutely no reason; no trust, no relationship. How LGBT I've gone: I've been on testosterone since December of 08. I think. I've got surgery planned in the future, and I'm open to pretty much everyone I know. I've had a couple experiences with women, but I didn't like it and so I stick to guys. Porn leaning: I don't feel very comfy explaining that to strangers, sorry. =P Fantasy leaning: Males. I just don't like women that way. Every fantasy I have ever had has been about men. Dream leaning: Males, again. I don't usually dream about making out with people or anything, but when I do, the person is always male. What I look for in a guy: Patient, loving, not too clingy... but not distant, either. Someone who lets me have my space but is open to cuddles. I like guys who are spiritual; I'm not religious nor am I Atheist, and I honestly find it a bit hard to be involved with Atheists, so I prefer guys who are a bit into spirituality at the least. I want a guy I can be friends with, and let it evolve from there. Also, I like furries. =P Added points if the guy is vegetarian and leans towards the liberal side of politics. Definitely need a guy who is accepting of trans* people, "big" people (I'm a bit chunky) and poly people. Sense of humor and intelligence required, of course. ... God I sound picky. What I look for in a girl: Friendship? That's as much as I look for in a girl. Which is pretty much similar to what I look for in a guy, just without sex being involved. What remains the same: I like weird people. xD
Orientation: Almost completely 100% gay. Partly pansexual. Leaning: Guys When I first knew: I remember coming out to my brother when I was around 8-11 years old. Acceptance: Never really truly accepted it until I came out to my mum about a year ago. How LGBT I've gone: When I was 16 I did stuff with this other guy. Including masturbating our penises together, fingering, blowjob, masturbating in face etc. It wasnt that good. I would say that I regret it, but I know that if I didnt have that experience I would be a lot dumber and a lot more needy today. Porn leaning: Guys Fantasy leaning: Guys Dream leaning: Guys What I look for in a guy: I have almost no idea. What I look for in a girl: I mostly dont! What remains the same: Dunno. I guess, I like people who are confidently smarter than me in some key areas.
Username: concrete Building (this place wouldn't have the full name) However, I might change it. Orientation: Bi. I'm more sexually attracted to guys than girls, and more romantically attracted to girls. However, it's not like I don't have sexual feelings for girls or romantic attractions for guys. Just kind of a weird balance. Also, every time I question my orientation, seconds later, it's back to the way it was (and is) Leaning: Eh.. Could go with either, honestly. But I wanna experiment a bit -heheh- When I first knew: About mid-January, I recall. Acceptance: Honestly, I should have seen it coming. Gender-wise, and also the fact that I never believed in "cooties" in elementary school, I should have. But, nonetheless, I'd found myself accepting that I was sexually gay after learning a couple close friends found themselves out. It still would have happened, since I was opening my mind more, and didn't want to be the hypocrite I'd been for the past 2 years. How LGBT I've gone: GSA, I talk to a few people online about stuff (who are LGBT people) and also talking to a social worker at school. Porn leaning: Seems a bit.. personal, but I tend to look at guys more. Fantasy leaning: Guys... Wet dream leaning: See, that's the thing: I've been jacking off before I knew what it was.. so I've never had a wet dream. What I look for in a guy: Kind of like a big brother. Probably because I -am- the big brother in the family. What I look for in a girl: Geeky? You're in. What remains the same: Basically, if you can be a friend, or a -really good- friend, it'll probably work out.
Username: WydenEmmie Orientation: Lesbian/Kinsey 5 Leaning: Girls When I first knew: 12-ish was when I kind of figured I wasn't straight. Acceptance: 13 ^.^ How LGBT I've gone: Nothing yet. What I look for in a guy: Nothing, considering I'm not really attracted to them, but if I was, they'd just have to be nice. What I look for in a girl: I'm not really picky, but I like seeing girls with piercings. Not over done though. If they're nice to me, and have an adventurous/daring/not-going-to-take-this-stupid-drama/do-what-I-want (as long as it's not illegal) attitude, that's awesome. But, I'd fall for anyone who is caring and fun to be around. What remains the same: There really isn't anything to stay the same, since I've only answered half of it.