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Do you want to get married??

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by x2x2x2x2y2, Jan 21, 2011.

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  1. x2x2x2x2y2

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    Marriage is a big thing for gays especially because we don't have it(in some/most places), so I'm curious. Do you want to get married sometime in your lifetime?? Is marriage a big thing to you?? Would you be with a guy if he didn't wanna marry you or vice versa??





    Personally, I don't want to get married. It's just not my thing. It's a big thing that I don't think I wanna be involved in. If a guy wanted to get married to me and we were in a long serious relationship and I loved him, then I'd probably do it for him.
     
    #1 x2x2x2x2y2, Jan 21, 2011
  2. Gerry

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    It's not a big thing to me either. I would like to have a long-term partner, but if I never get married, I don't think I would be that upset about it. Although I would love to adopt a child and if my long-term partner wanted to adopt a child, maybe marriage would be best. Who knows. :slight_smile:
     
    #2 Gerry, Jan 21, 2011
  3. MusicIsLife

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    I want the right available to everyone, but personally the idea of marriage freaks me out. I cant imagine tying myself to one person for the rest of my life.
     
    #3 MusicIsLife, Jan 21, 2011
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    No i do not. I don't quite understand marriage. I think marriage should be solely a religious institution and domestic partnership that of the state.
     
    #4 Darkwing65, Jan 21, 2011
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    Not right now. I certainly want the legal right to marry if I ever desire to.
     
    #5 midwestblues, Jan 21, 2011
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    At this point...no lol:lol:
     
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    I'd get hitched. I don't see why not. I mean, if LGBT people are fighting for the right to get married, why wouldn't they want to get married in the end?
     
    #7 Eric, Jan 21, 2011
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    I would totally get married to the right guy. :slight_smile:
     
    #8 lostinthought9, Jan 21, 2011
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    Agreed.
     
    #10 Mogget, Jan 21, 2011
  11. IsItSo

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    Sure, why not.

    I could live without it, but it'd be nice.

    Yes.
     
    #11 IsItSo, Jan 21, 2011
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    Not sure. But glad that I have the option to marry in my country and IN MY CHURCH if I ever wish too. :wink:
     
    #12 Fintan, Jan 21, 2011
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    Yes please.

    I also wanna get married my church.

    ...yeah...don't see that one happening...
     
    #13 Courtneyyy, Jan 21, 2011
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    This sums it up.
     
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    I'd love to get married on the beach :L
     
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    Yes, I would definitely like to get married someday.

    Interestingly, Out Magazine recently did a survey and found that younger gay men want to get married more than older gay men (80% of 18-25 year olds vs. 51% of 36-45 year olds).
     
    #16 Nodnarb, Jan 21, 2011
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    Definitely. I wanted to when I thought I was straight, and I still do now. I think perhaps I was more the girl though because I dreamed the big white wedding for a long time lol. I wish I could wear a wedding dress :frowning2:
     
    #17 Revan, Jan 21, 2011
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    ^ I want to propose to this song. Like talk a restaurant full of people into flash-mobbing it for me while I'm there on a date.

    I could get married if I really fell head over heels for someone, but I'm not actively seeking a marriage or anything.
     
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    Yea, I would like to eventually get married.
     
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    My boyfriend and I both want to be married to "Marry You" by Bruno Mars. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: We both just love the song.
     
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