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Are you attracted to people who look like you?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Psychedelic Bookmarks, Mar 9, 2008.

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Can you be attracted to people who look like you?

  1. Yes, sometimes

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    62.8%
  2. No, I'm not attracted to my own style

    22 vote(s)
    10.2%
  3. No, being with someone the same as me is a turn off

    25 vote(s)
    11.6%
  4. No, because both of the above ^

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    15.3%
  1. Undecided John

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    Well, when I wake up, definitely not! But ... except for the beard (mine is always growing, and I don't like it very much) and the hair (mine is ... weird, at least), I would like a guy like me.

    And in the personality, GOD, I dream about finding someone with a similar personality and cultural background (what is pretty difficult, since mine is pretty crazy). Girl, guy, sock puppet, I would marry anything with a very similar personality =D
     
  2. Just Adam

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    I so read that poll wrong >.>.

    I thought it said ' are you attracted to people who like you '

    I put yes. If someone likes me I start feeling for them.

    Look like me tho then it's a never !
     
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    i wouldnt be attracted to myself or people who look like me or have the same features, im attracted to opposites
     
  4. cityofangels

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    Short answer: Yes :slight_smile:
     
  5. SagaciousNJ

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    I actually think well of my looks and my style, I have higher than average self esteem, but....I'm just not my type.

    I have this image in my head of me making out with myself and, just..eeewwwwwww!!
     
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    I guess I'd half to answer "sometimes"? I consider myself attractive, and there are some features of mine that I would be attracted to in somebody else, but there are also a few things that would turn me off.
     
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    No, I'm not attracted to people who look like me, boring. I've ever really been attracted about five people with the same hair colour and none of them looked like me at all it's the same for other features people who look like me just aren't attractive to me personally, I like things that are different.
     
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    Before my sophomore year, the people I was attracted to looked a lot like me! But I think that's because I was very different back then.(Ha! 2 years ago :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:)

    But now, not at all lol. The people I am VERY attracted to look almost nothing like me
     
  10. Drowzee64

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    Looks-wise? Possibly, but not likely.

    I've been toying with the idea of dating somebody with a somewhat similar personality to my own once I'm ready to start dating again. I have no clue how that would work out, but I don't think I would mind it if he was a little brooding like me. We could hug each other when we're down :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I actually go for white guys, particularly blonds, dark browns and redheads :slight_smile: but personality-wise, definitely nearly the same.
     
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    I have always been attracted to masculine bodys. I have been putting onl alot of muscle since I got my gym membership, so as time continues, I am becoming more like the kind of guy i am attracted to.
     
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    "I'd be attracted to me... I'd be attracted to me so hard."
     
  14. Rinto

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    I am only attracted to people who are exactly the opposite of me, but share some qualities with me.
     
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    Right now I am...she has a similar look but doesn't look exactly like me. It kinda freaks me out a bit, but this is the first time it's happened so...
     
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    This is how I am. I hold myself to my own standard of attraction, so it seems natural that I would find those who are similar in style and personality attractive.

    As far as natural looks go, I tend to be most attracted to guys with lighter hair, lighter eyes, along with ###### and body hair, so yeah, I guess I like people who look similar to me.
     
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    I'm a Capricorn, so my horoscope tells me I'm attracted to people who oppose me, but I beg to differ.

    I like guys in all flavors, shapes, sizes, and so on. So short answer is yes, I am. Although I draw the line at identical twin-like resemblance. I don't want to get freaky with myself... Well in that aspect I don't... :wink: